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So, working at a gay bar has given me a little insight on men and women. I find it strange that at a straight bar that's a meat market... guys hunt for girls and take turns making idiots of themselves to try to sleep with the group of girls who all look and act the same. These guys are the same way. They all have the popped collar, Aberombie jeans, tan and flip flops. The girls all look like Paris Hilton wannabees. The girls are "straight" but mess around with their girlfriends to impress these knuckledicks. The guys try to grope the girls while the girls grope each other...turning the guys on more? This type of crowd thinks that guys messing around is gross and discustingly gay...both the guys and girls. But that girls making out is the coolest thing since Members Only jackets. Anyways, tonight at the gay bar there were a ton of "fag hags" groping and trying to make out with their gay friends, and getting mad that their GAY friends werent giving them enough attention. This makes me think of alot of things but basicly....

What if the roles were reversed? What if at a meat market guys would grind on each other and make out to turn girls on? What if girls allways tried to get straight guys to fuck around and thought it was the hottest thing ever? What if most of these guys that were straight said "It's just that men are sexier than guys, as far as bodies go" Like most girls that are straight or bi often say. What if guys hung out with their lesbian friends at gay bars and tried to fuck them, then got mad that they werent interested? Why are straight girls intrigued when another girl hits on them, but straight guys are disgusted when another man hits on them? A compliment is a compliment. Flattery is flattery. Does mean I have to fuck someone or be attracted to them to accept a compliment. A little kid can say that Im handsome and I would say "thank you" and be flattered. So why the fuck would guys be so weird about it. First of all= to the guys...more gay guys=more women for you...more bi or gay girls=less for you. How is it that I knew this when I was 13 but there's still guys that dont?

My conclusion...I have a dream...one day that guys will be sex objects as well. That both men and women's bodies will be considered equally attractive. That straight girls and guys wont play cat and mouse games, instead just be real and honest with each other. That guys wont be homophobic, and girls will mess with girls because she really wants too, not because it's cool or the popular thing to do to get guys. That guys and girls, straight gay or bi, can all interact with each other in a respectfull way without imposing their will on someone else. That people wont try to change someone's sexuality, but respect it and accept it.

Well, just another rant...this is shit I think about and I think it's fun to write it down. I figure we all deserve to be happy, but there's alot of weird shit that makes no sense...so its good sometimes to bring it up and joke about it. If only Saturday Night Live will do a skit on it. That would be freakin great. Later kids.