U want but can 't have
Hi peeps
Hope those that are dealing with that wnter storm are doing ok and staying warm.
It happens to all of us or most of us, you fall for someone you know you do not have a prayer of getting with and of course if you know you will not get them then why even wonder about it, i guess it is ok to think about it in a "what if" situation but best not to let it go any further. Well lucky me who does not seem to learn from mistakes has had it happen about 4 times in my lifetime but i know in some cases it has hapened to others many more times in there life and once honestly is BAD enough and the fun part is telling the person your intereested in, no you do not have to tell them and just live with that the rest of your life and might be the best way to handle that. So what happens when you do let them know? ha ha it depends on them, they might feel the same way but if they are with someone wlse it is not really cool to tell them unless you do it kinda like a crush and that might be all it is but if you say it in a joke-way then no harm no foul but do that at your own risk cause on 2 of those occasions i told them how i felt but knew i had no chance with them which shoots you down before anything ccould happen. in 2001 i told this one girl i liked them but was not aware that she was dating my best friend at the time, i knew they were friends but did not know more than that and found out from her sister that they were together and thinking about getting married. I was heart broken not so much from her involved with my friend but that it was kept from me for 3 months, i thought i was with soemone else and was but was cheating on that girl with the girl i was interested in. turns out that she had told him not to tell me about them dating cause i would get upset about it which yes i would but would have respected that alot more than keeping it from me, and the girl i liked was a DRAMA QUEEN (another one) and loved that secrets were being kept to keep it interesting. I even wrote a small story about how i wanted her but knew i could not have her, she wanted to read it but once i found out the truth about them i did not feel like having story read by her just so she and him could laugh at it so i changed the names and kept it around just to in case i get bored and wanna read it. not a big story, maybe 21 pages long. Ever since then i keep my mouth shut if i like someone a little more than i should. I like alot of people but if i LIKE liike them well if i tell them it gewts kinda weird and seems like the friendship is different and makes them feel like that is all your thinking about but i know not everyone does. Right now i do not feel that way about anyone, last time was a coupl eof years ago but told a friend to tell them kinda that i had feelings for them, they were going through a break up but i felt they needed to know, turns out they never felt that way for me and cause of it they deleted me from there friendlist on facebook. I did not want to just stop talking to them like that but that is another reason why if i like someone more than just as a friend i may not say anything cause if i did they feel akward and decide to just delete me o'well i move on. I'm rambling again, sorry, i'm going to go eat something so i'll talk at ya later peeps and have a great weekend
Hi peeps
Hope those that are dealing with that wnter storm are doing ok and staying warm.
It happens to all of us or most of us, you fall for someone you know you do not have a prayer of getting with and of course if you know you will not get them then why even wonder about it, i guess it is ok to think about it in a "what if" situation but best not to let it go any further. Well lucky me who does not seem to learn from mistakes has had it happen about 4 times in my lifetime but i know in some cases it has hapened to others many more times in there life and once honestly is BAD enough and the fun part is telling the person your intereested in, no you do not have to tell them and just live with that the rest of your life and might be the best way to handle that. So what happens when you do let them know? ha ha it depends on them, they might feel the same way but if they are with someone wlse it is not really cool to tell them unless you do it kinda like a crush and that might be all it is but if you say it in a joke-way then no harm no foul but do that at your own risk cause on 2 of those occasions i told them how i felt but knew i had no chance with them which shoots you down before anything ccould happen. in 2001 i told this one girl i liked them but was not aware that she was dating my best friend at the time, i knew they were friends but did not know more than that and found out from her sister that they were together and thinking about getting married. I was heart broken not so much from her involved with my friend but that it was kept from me for 3 months, i thought i was with soemone else and was but was cheating on that girl with the girl i was interested in. turns out that she had told him not to tell me about them dating cause i would get upset about it which yes i would but would have respected that alot more than keeping it from me, and the girl i liked was a DRAMA QUEEN (another one) and loved that secrets were being kept to keep it interesting. I even wrote a small story about how i wanted her but knew i could not have her, she wanted to read it but once i found out the truth about them i did not feel like having story read by her just so she and him could laugh at it so i changed the names and kept it around just to in case i get bored and wanna read it. not a big story, maybe 21 pages long. Ever since then i keep my mouth shut if i like someone a little more than i should. I like alot of people but if i LIKE liike them well if i tell them it gewts kinda weird and seems like the friendship is different and makes them feel like that is all your thinking about but i know not everyone does. Right now i do not feel that way about anyone, last time was a coupl eof years ago but told a friend to tell them kinda that i had feelings for them, they were going through a break up but i felt they needed to know, turns out they never felt that way for me and cause of it they deleted me from there friendlist on facebook. I did not want to just stop talking to them like that but that is another reason why if i like someone more than just as a friend i may not say anything cause if i did they feel akward and decide to just delete me o'well i move on. I'm rambling again, sorry, i'm going to go eat something so i'll talk at ya later peeps and have a great weekend