I have tried really hard. I read profiles, I formulate funny and relevant introductions based on profiles and ladies interests. However I absolutely suck at Plenty of Fish. I assume it's because I have a face like a welder's bench but it may also be the fact that I really have no aptitude for small talk. Plus I'm a nerd which in non SG land is seen as a huge negative. It sucks that I finally feel happy about myself to get back out there; yet the reasons I took myself away from the world still play a huge factor in my failures with the opposite sex. Bollocks!