In the ever continuing effort to better myself I would like to take this opportunity to ask a couple of questions. I sincerely hope for honest feedback only; constructive criticism only please and also understand that if I reply with more questions, it isn't necessarily because I don't understand or disagree, I am just seeking further clarification or explanation.
Questions: How do you (ladies) feel about the men on suicide girls? Do we make you feel uncomfortable? What is it that makes you feel uncomfortable? Do we make you feel good about yourselves? In what way can we make you feel good without being/sounding like creeps/pervs? Have I personally ever made you feel uncomfortable with a comment or response?
In the past I saw a comment about how saying specific things in comments about pics/vids/sets could make people uncomfortable and fully understanding that everyone is different and different comments may be taken differently by different people and so I consciously made an effort to not make similar comments after that though I will apologize ahead of time saying that if I made a comment that made you feel uncomfortable I am very sorry and that was not my intent; though I know that probably doesn't help but I am making efforts to be a better person so please try to work with me if you have to patience to do so.
Also, let me be the first to state that my intentions for joining this site were a combination of things. For one, I definitely wanted to see naked women. I won't claim to be noble and pretend I had other intentions. I like women and enjoy admiring your sets and other material. But I also wanted to join a community (adult community) that supported and empowered women to be comfortable with themselves no matter how different they may be viewed by society (not saying you are, just saying). I read a meme once that very accurately explained that people are empowered by different things. Some women are empowered by nudity and others by modesty; supporting that in a world that largely teaches people to be ashamed of their bodies and hide themselves or to be a certain way is, in my opinion, very important for people's mental health. It is important to know that different isn't necessarily bad or wrong but instead can be good and beautiful. I also joined with the hopes of meeting new people and having good conversations. I have had some good conversations with people on here as there are some awesome people here. I also held slight hopes of meeting someone with mutual interests and maybe forming a relationship with that person but I honestly had no hopes of that ever happening.
Do you think my reasons for joining this site/community were wrong? Am I off base entirely? Have I misunderstood more than I thought? What do you think I and other men who join this site can do differently to help people feel more comfortable and secure? If your feedback is for me personally or for men in general please state which?
Lastly let me say thank you ahead of time for taking the time to respond to me. If you would prefer to chat in private about anything I have said so far or anything I have said or done in the past please feel free to message me privately. I hope this post isn't taken the wrong way and is seen a genuine inquiry. I hope to get the perspective of as many people as possible so please leave a comment with your thoughts as not everyone has the same experiences and perspective. Thank you for your time.
