jalvin

There's really nothing like it, meeting with bdsm people in person. It's very educational, both in technique & application, but also just being in a group where it's not some big secret, where it's the norm. It's like...well, it's like untying a tight corset, and being able to take a deep breath.

So, it's a meeting first, and not a party? That's great too. My first contact with a bdsm group here was at a Meet-n-Greet at a local Bar/Tapas cafe. People talked about everything, bdsm related & otherwise. Plus the BDSM community in general take pride in sharing knowledge. I asked soooo many questions without being made to feel stupid.

I hope you have fun!