I am faced with a very difficult problem.
How do you say, I think you're a really rad girl and I would really like to go out with you. I mean gracefully.
I mean I refuse to do it over IM or email like some sort of retarded high school student but in person there never seems to be a good time. I mean just forcing would be like interrupting an intricate waltz with a sledgehammer to the knee. (You get special points if you can leave a comment with the link to where I stole that line from)
The whole situation frustrates me. Because this girl is really swell. Swell in the sense that I think she's what I've really been looking for and really need. She's not a perfect sex goddess female like the rest of the world says I need and deserve, she's just normal person with a maturity level above the average girl that I've tired to open up to. I'm able to be honest and ask the questions that I want to ask (well except that big one) and that give me hope. And I seem to be being honest and kind not because there's some plot behind it but because she's being kind and honest to me.
All of which leaves me more confused. I mean I'm in that classic situation, you want to be honest with your feelings but not fuck up a possible good friendship. And everyone knows that 99 out of 100 times that the friendship is never the same after the "let's be more then friends" "ok how about not because I don't feel that way about you" speech.
Fuck, how the fuck do all of you make it look so easy?
Of course I'm faced with a personal problem that I know is my own insecurities but still. See the only real time I ever saw this girl was in my english class...which ended today. So I don't know if I'll ever see her again. We hung out after but I still don't know if that was just being nice or if it was because she was being a friend.
Well time to go take anti-depressates and wash it down with a shit load of beer.
How do you say, I think you're a really rad girl and I would really like to go out with you. I mean gracefully.
I mean I refuse to do it over IM or email like some sort of retarded high school student but in person there never seems to be a good time. I mean just forcing would be like interrupting an intricate waltz with a sledgehammer to the knee. (You get special points if you can leave a comment with the link to where I stole that line from)
The whole situation frustrates me. Because this girl is really swell. Swell in the sense that I think she's what I've really been looking for and really need. She's not a perfect sex goddess female like the rest of the world says I need and deserve, she's just normal person with a maturity level above the average girl that I've tired to open up to. I'm able to be honest and ask the questions that I want to ask (well except that big one) and that give me hope. And I seem to be being honest and kind not because there's some plot behind it but because she's being kind and honest to me.
All of which leaves me more confused. I mean I'm in that classic situation, you want to be honest with your feelings but not fuck up a possible good friendship. And everyone knows that 99 out of 100 times that the friendship is never the same after the "let's be more then friends" "ok how about not because I don't feel that way about you" speech.
Fuck, how the fuck do all of you make it look so easy?
Of course I'm faced with a personal problem that I know is my own insecurities but still. See the only real time I ever saw this girl was in my english class...which ended today. So I don't know if I'll ever see her again. We hung out after but I still don't know if that was just being nice or if it was because she was being a friend.
Well time to go take anti-depressates and wash it down with a shit load of beer.
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"I think you're a really rad girl and I would really like to go out with you".
If she says no she says no. Things could be worse. Take a chance and man up.
That is really what you want to say anyways isn't it?
PS - this is the message you get AFTER lots and lots of PBRs. sorry!