jacekstruski

I try to not get attached to anything or anyone. Things get lost, break down, wore off. People leave - whether it is by their choice or someone elses. Or because of the things that can't be controlled. So why bother? When it's all about You. About Your experiences, Your choices, Your decisions. Why have something that You don't need? Oh, yeah, because someone said - in the magazine, on TV, amongst Your friends, whatever - that one has to have it, or it is expected of You to have it. You're a man, - You need a car, how can You live without a car ??? Let me ask You this - how the fuck people got around before there was even an idea of a car??? The same goes to every other thing. Don't fucking tell me that I need or suppose to have something. Same goes to people. Everybody says, You need friends, You need to get out, socialize. You're a man, You need a girlfriend, a wife, You should start a family, settle down. Total bullshit. Specially marriage. I think that everybody got it twisted. It should be the other way around. If anything you should marry when You're old and grey, not young and stupid. That would be the best way to tell someone I love You, every day. If You want to be with me, than be with me, If You don't want to, don't be. Simple as that. Without society pressuring You to stay just because You're marry. People change, whether You want it or not. Hoping they don't is dumb as fuck. But if You are with someone, day after day, not because You suppose to - for whatever reason - but because You want to, regardless of the changes - in You and in Your partner, and all of the time both of You know that You can leave at any time - cause there is nothing forcing You to stay .... now that;s the way to say I love You .... not some flowers or cards perfectly scheduled ... not the presents, anniversaries, dinners, rings and all of that shit .... that, that's just pathetic ... You want to say I love You? than be with that person, day in and day out, help, support, understand, accept, open, face every day together, don't back down .... say, I don't care what others say, I don't even care about what You say, I'm not leaving You, not when I know that You need someone ... that's how You say I love You ................. Bu I deviate. All in all, remember one thing, all You really need is food and sleep, everything and everyone else You can do without ... unless You don't want to ... but not because someone tells You to, but because You, selfishly, think that You need that something or someone ... To be happy is to be selfish ... You are the only person You will be dealing with for the rest of You life ... so don't fight with him, talk to him, understand him, please him not everyone around