Blog Part A) So, things with girl #2 actually took a drastic turn for the better. After our initial talk (see last blog) things were a little weird, but it really ended up being nothing more than a speed bump. Things got a little too physical a little too fast, and we dialed it back for a while. I think I just freaked her out. We talked throughout the week and then last night she came over to watch movies. Ended up staying the night and, after a few hours of making out during and after the movie, we had the "should we have sex now" talk.
It's worth pointing out that I've never really had that talk before. My experience thus far has always led me right into having sex, with no discussion prior as to whether it's the right time or a good idea. I don't regret that, per say. Those experiences have all been appropriately passionate and without second thoughts. But it was nice being with a girl who takes things a little slower and analyzes them. We talked about whether it was a good idea, what the consequences would be, and what would be gained by waiting, and in the end we ended up having sex anyway. It actually sucked and I came in like two minutes, I think because there was so much pressure at that point, but it's cool. I made up for it with a triumphant encore this morning.
So yeah. We're doing quite well. I'm not sure if this is going to turn into a relationship or just a "good friend who I also sleep with or maybe date or whatever" kind of thing, but I really don't care. She's legitimately rad, I enjoy spending time with her, we have a lot in common and a lot of shared interests, and that's good enough for me.
Blog Part B) Rigel is retiring from SG. Since day one, way back in 2003 when I joined this site, she's been my favorite. If RIgel puts up a blog, I read it first before anyone else's. Her smile, her words, her tattoos, her hair, her bubbly personality, and her photography have always made my day brighter. I feel like I'm losing a friend (even an anonymous e-Friend who has never talked or interacted with me at all), and I'm a little sad. I know she's moving on to different things, though, and I hope that whoever and whatever she pursues is worthy of a person like her.
It's worth pointing out that I've never really had that talk before. My experience thus far has always led me right into having sex, with no discussion prior as to whether it's the right time or a good idea. I don't regret that, per say. Those experiences have all been appropriately passionate and without second thoughts. But it was nice being with a girl who takes things a little slower and analyzes them. We talked about whether it was a good idea, what the consequences would be, and what would be gained by waiting, and in the end we ended up having sex anyway. It actually sucked and I came in like two minutes, I think because there was so much pressure at that point, but it's cool. I made up for it with a triumphant encore this morning.
So yeah. We're doing quite well. I'm not sure if this is going to turn into a relationship or just a "good friend who I also sleep with or maybe date or whatever" kind of thing, but I really don't care. She's legitimately rad, I enjoy spending time with her, we have a lot in common and a lot of shared interests, and that's good enough for me.
Blog Part B) Rigel is retiring from SG. Since day one, way back in 2003 when I joined this site, she's been my favorite. If RIgel puts up a blog, I read it first before anyone else's. Her smile, her words, her tattoos, her hair, her bubbly personality, and her photography have always made my day brighter. I feel like I'm losing a friend (even an anonymous e-Friend who has never talked or interacted with me at all), and I'm a little sad. I know she's moving on to different things, though, and I hope that whoever and whatever she pursues is worthy of a person like her.
missmalice_:
I'm surprised I didnt see this blog before. I'm wondering how tonight went.... pimp