If you are bi or gay, do not come out. It will only make you feel good for a microsecond. The friends you think understand will abandon you. And the people you thought would shun you are the only ones left standing. I came out two weeks ago to family and friends that I was bi. I have cried for one of those weeks and at the end of the second week have started crying again. It seems like only 3 or 4 people in the world understand me. If you have this problem please help and I will try to help you. If you are bi or gay, please do not, it is not worth it, live in the closet. I have had too much agony unfortunately. Don't want you to have it. Society sucks and is not ready for us.
I personally do not feel that people should have to hide who they are. In my experiences that option is also painful.
I hope you are able to find some sort of relief and clarity.
All the best