And then confusion set in. Just when you think everything is sorted out and going ahead, a spanner flies from out of left field and fucks up the works.
Have been separated for 18 months, but only really recovered from my depression for about 2 months. Before that I was nothing and therefore was not worried about what I had lost, because if I was worthless, I had nothing of worth.
When I finally realised that I was a valuable person, I came to grieve what I had lost. Not I have met a person who I respect and am interested in, but at the same time, my ex is now single again.
We were once soul mates and part of me has suddenly decided that, as the man she broke up with no longer exists, is there a chance for us.
She is still shattered from breaking up with the "boyfriend". So have to beware of the rebound effect, and in the mean time I cant go leading this other woman on.
God life was certainly simpler when all I had to worry about was if I was going to wake up the next morning (or go to sleep that night)
Have been separated for 18 months, but only really recovered from my depression for about 2 months. Before that I was nothing and therefore was not worried about what I had lost, because if I was worthless, I had nothing of worth.
When I finally realised that I was a valuable person, I came to grieve what I had lost. Not I have met a person who I respect and am interested in, but at the same time, my ex is now single again.
We were once soul mates and part of me has suddenly decided that, as the man she broke up with no longer exists, is there a chance for us.
She is still shattered from breaking up with the "boyfriend". So have to beware of the rebound effect, and in the mean time I cant go leading this other woman on.
God life was certainly simpler when all I had to worry about was if I was going to wake up the next morning (or go to sleep that night)
Have a lurvely day!!