Login
Forgot Password?

OR

Login with Google Login with Twitter Login with Facebook
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • SuicideGirls
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
Vital Stats

irenzero

The Peoples Republic of Ann Arbor

Member Since 2004

Followers 4 Following 3

  • Everything
  • Photos
  • Video
  • Blogs
  • Groups
  • From Others

Sunday Feb 22, 2004

Feb 22, 2004
0
  • Facebook
  • Tweet
  • Email
it's all in the eyes.....

Ok I was a the burlesque show last night and some one asked me what it was in a woman's physical appearance that I was into. Now I went into the the PRoAA song and dance about how I just have a very hard time looking at a woman's appearance as the thing I should be looking for. My formative years were spent being told by the religious right that it was someone's heart and soul that was important, and the extreme left wing feminists telling me that, I was evil for being male, and that focusing in on a woman's appearance was oppression. So somewhere in the middle of all that madness I learned to do my best to keep my eyes to my self.

+ Tangent +
I have a sister who did very well in this environment because she was empowered by the system, she is a feminist with a capital F. She is the first one to tell me when I am out of line, and never let me forget that I was out of line. One day I was driving her somewhere and I stopped the car in the middle of the street to allow a woman to jay walk in front of me. This woman happened to be wearing knee boots, which I kind of dig, and I was checking out her boots. I guess I was staring to hard because the woman turned and shot me a nasty look. My sister turns to me and say's 'that woman just gave you a really nasty look'. If I had been out of line with my staring my sister would have let me know, but I think she was just as surprised as I was at that nasty look. That was the environment that I grew up in, and with out a daily exposure to a father figure to guide me through that minefield I might add.

anyway this is the long way around to say that when I meet women it's their eyes that either draw me in or push me away. It's the fire of intelligence, humor, or clarity, what Radio Birdman called 'The Living Eyes' in several of their songs. I need something more than that dull glazed over look that I find in the eyes of so many women in the USA.

Of course I'm human and I do check out the whole package, and there are physical attributes that draw my attention and others that repel those same things. In general I look for women who are balanced in shape and form. The Swedes have this world Lagom, which means not too little, not too much. That pretty much is what I look for in a woman, and just about every thing else in this world.

Sexiness is 90% about the way someone carries themselves and projects their personality, (all that stuff that is accessible in their eyes), 5% the image projected with clothes, hair, and accessories, and 5% X-factor ( not the comic).

a cute nose, and a nice pair of hips also help.

(further reading on the what it was like to grow up in the PRoAA at http://www.streetsofscience.net/AAA.html )
VIEW 8 of 8 COMMENTS
nebel:
book, well I do this thing called Nanowrimo...it's national writer's month, and you try to write a 50,000 page book in a month. I've done it for 2 years now and have good starts to a couple of books. so I have been thinking about combining them and concluding them. they wouldn't even really be a book by normal standards, because there would be weird art and crossword puzzles mixed inbetween.
p.s. i like yer entry. biggrin
Feb 27, 2004
jovanka:
Yeah, wasn't it you who sent us those CDs?
Feb 27, 2004

More Blogs

  • 11.12.04
    1

    Friday Nov 12, 2004

    I'm just not sure any more.
  • 11.09.04
    0

    Wednesday Nov 10, 2004

    TV update to come... American Dreams: The crime of 3 eye blind p…
  • 10.19.04
    4

    Wednesday Oct 20, 2004

    I'm working on this piece for my journal that's a What if [Marvel Co…
  • 10.13.04
    1

    Wednesday Oct 13, 2004

    Why isn't there a Dunkin Donuts in the twin cities? Really have peopl…
  • 10.06.04
    1

    Wednesday Oct 06, 2004

    This new set up is kinda Jinky.... anyway I hate to be a bitch but...…
  • 10.03.04
    1

    Monday Oct 04, 2004

    my 2nd favorite Far Side cartoon is one where there is a simple jumbl…
  • 09.30.04
    0

    Thursday Sep 30, 2004

    Silver City: Killer Flick, cool mystery, nice scenes, great little mo…
  • 09.23.04
    4

    Thursday Sep 23, 2004

    When I was a kid I wanted to be an Archeologist. I wanted to uncover …
  • 09.21.04
    1

    Tuesday Sep 21, 2004

    From the Ashes: The Divine Horsemen The Divine Horsemen never had …
  • 09.17.04
    1

    Friday Sep 17, 2004

    Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes. I did find that book and …

We at SuicideGirls have been celebrating alternative pin-up girls for:

23
years
10
months
6
days
  • 5,509,826 fans
  • 41,393 fans
  • 10,327,617 followers
  • 4,598 SuicideGirls
  • 1,116,294 followers
  • 14,937,563 photos
  • 321,315 followers
  • 61,436,624 comments
  • Join
  • Profiles
  • Groups
  • Photos
  • Videos
  • Shop
  • Help
  • About
  • Press
  • LIVE

Legal/Tos | DMCA | Privacy Policy | 18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Requirements Compliance Statement | Contact Us | Vendo Payment Support
©SuicideGirls 2001-2025

Press enter to search
Fast Hi-res

Click here to join & see it all...

Crop your photo