it's all in the eyes.....
Ok I was a the burlesque show last night and some one asked me what it was in a woman's physical appearance that I was into. Now I went into the the PRoAA song and dance about how I just have a very hard time looking at a woman's appearance as the thing I should be looking for. My formative years were spent being told by the religious right that it was someone's heart and soul that was important, and the extreme left wing feminists telling me that, I was evil for being male, and that focusing in on a woman's appearance was oppression. So somewhere in the middle of all that madness I learned to do my best to keep my eyes to my self.
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I have a sister who did very well in this environment because she was empowered by the system, she is a feminist with a capital F. She is the first one to tell me when I am out of line, and never let me forget that I was out of line. One day I was driving her somewhere and I stopped the car in the middle of the street to allow a woman to jay walk in front of me. This woman happened to be wearing knee boots, which I kind of dig, and I was checking out her boots. I guess I was staring to hard because the woman turned and shot me a nasty look. My sister turns to me and say's 'that woman just gave you a really nasty look'. If I had been out of line with my staring my sister would have let me know, but I think she was just as surprised as I was at that nasty look. That was the environment that I grew up in, and with out a daily exposure to a father figure to guide me through that minefield I might add.
anyway this is the long way around to say that when I meet women it's their eyes that either draw me in or push me away. It's the fire of intelligence, humor, or clarity, what Radio Birdman called 'The Living Eyes' in several of their songs. I need something more than that dull glazed over look that I find in the eyes of so many women in the USA.
Of course I'm human and I do check out the whole package, and there are physical attributes that draw my attention and others that repel those same things. In general I look for women who are balanced in shape and form. The Swedes have this world Lagom, which means not too little, not too much. That pretty much is what I look for in a woman, and just about every thing else in this world.
Sexiness is 90% about the way someone carries themselves and projects their personality, (all that stuff that is accessible in their eyes), 5% the image projected with clothes, hair, and accessories, and 5% X-factor ( not the comic).
a cute nose, and a nice pair of hips also help.
(further reading on the what it was like to grow up in the PRoAA at http://www.streetsofscience.net/AAA.html )
Ok I was a the burlesque show last night and some one asked me what it was in a woman's physical appearance that I was into. Now I went into the the PRoAA song and dance about how I just have a very hard time looking at a woman's appearance as the thing I should be looking for. My formative years were spent being told by the religious right that it was someone's heart and soul that was important, and the extreme left wing feminists telling me that, I was evil for being male, and that focusing in on a woman's appearance was oppression. So somewhere in the middle of all that madness I learned to do my best to keep my eyes to my self.
+ Tangent +
I have a sister who did very well in this environment because she was empowered by the system, she is a feminist with a capital F. She is the first one to tell me when I am out of line, and never let me forget that I was out of line. One day I was driving her somewhere and I stopped the car in the middle of the street to allow a woman to jay walk in front of me. This woman happened to be wearing knee boots, which I kind of dig, and I was checking out her boots. I guess I was staring to hard because the woman turned and shot me a nasty look. My sister turns to me and say's 'that woman just gave you a really nasty look'. If I had been out of line with my staring my sister would have let me know, but I think she was just as surprised as I was at that nasty look. That was the environment that I grew up in, and with out a daily exposure to a father figure to guide me through that minefield I might add.
anyway this is the long way around to say that when I meet women it's their eyes that either draw me in or push me away. It's the fire of intelligence, humor, or clarity, what Radio Birdman called 'The Living Eyes' in several of their songs. I need something more than that dull glazed over look that I find in the eyes of so many women in the USA.
Of course I'm human and I do check out the whole package, and there are physical attributes that draw my attention and others that repel those same things. In general I look for women who are balanced in shape and form. The Swedes have this world Lagom, which means not too little, not too much. That pretty much is what I look for in a woman, and just about every thing else in this world.
Sexiness is 90% about the way someone carries themselves and projects their personality, (all that stuff that is accessible in their eyes), 5% the image projected with clothes, hair, and accessories, and 5% X-factor ( not the comic).
a cute nose, and a nice pair of hips also help.
(further reading on the what it was like to grow up in the PRoAA at http://www.streetsofscience.net/AAA.html )
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