My uncle, and my mother's only full sibling, died tonight.  He had metastasized throat cancer.  The family had been expecting it to a degree, but you never fully expect it.  And he was reacting well to chemo.  My poor mother.  My poor aunt.  
    
  
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  sorry about your uncle. i have 2 friends dealing with cancer right now (one has it & one's mom just passed), it feels like it's an epidemic...
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  on an uncomfortably unrelated note, i'd think it was hot if my husband asked me to take shirtless photos of him for a softcore porn site & would ask if he wanted noodz.