Life outside one's comfort zone

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One of my favorite sayings is "Life begins outside your comfort zone." I don't know what blog this question would go under, so I'll post it here.

What is your most memorable experience outside your comfort zone?

Mine, I traveled to South Africa and Zimbabwe. I like traveling alone, so I can interact with the people from the country I'm in, and meet people. It's...
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inkedodie:
@amra thanks for sharing.  I'm glad it was a good experience for you.  I imagine, for many of you girls, photo shoots are definitely out of your comfort zones.
oldernow:
I have traveled widely in many 3rd world countries and sometimes it is indeed outside my comfort zone, and often as you say, because i am aware that those around me are never quite 'comfortable' around me. (white, middle-class american).  but as far as "outside my comfort zone" - that would be having to lead 500 Buddhists in a 5 hour chant and pilgrimage - I just stepped into the temple to see what was happening, and - because i am older, they asked me if i knew the sutra they were chanting - i said yes, which was true - and so they put me at the front.  spent those hours leading by watching the guy behind me! eep!  -- but yes, living means movement, uncertainty, surviving means staying with what you (think you) know.... \

Helpful tip for life

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Always be truthful and honest. Be your true self. That way you'll know who likes and cares about the real you. And you'll know who is not worth your time.

Bonus tip, always proofread before posting.

Words matter.

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I have seen that @sophii has passed away at just 23. Far too young. I never got a chance to know her, but from what I see of her, she left a lasting and special impact on many people. Our lives are too short, some, far far too short. How we treat others, and how we are remember lasts long after we leave. As someone...
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melyse:
I've heard about her too 😥 we need to be kinder to people and help each other as much as possible. Sometimes a single simple gesture can mean the world to someone!
olgakulaga:
Thank you 🙏🏼

Looking for positives from 2020.

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This has been a trying year for most, devastation for far too many. Either lost loved ones, or lost income this year took a lot from us. But, some have given. So, I'd like to mention those that made 2020 survivable for me.

@marlene, @olgakulaga, @eloi, @melyse @ceelacy and others who took the time to converse with me. Your messages and comments help me feel...
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marlene:
pleasure was mine! I loved talking with you and I'll try to be better at answering next year! Thank you for being such a cool and chill person. You also made my year a way better one.
jhosi:
May the force be with us all

Cyberpunk 2077

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Anyone else start this game. I haven't gotten far, but the first game I've played were I had to select penis size.

What is the best compliment you've gotten? From a male or female? Wh…

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melyse:
This week somebody said I was creative and interesting. And I think interesting is an AMAZING compliment, 100%!
inkedodie:
While eyes can be very communicative, words are the best way to share emotion and expression.  Especially in today's isolated world.  While I do appreciate your physical features, the comments and commincation are of greater importance and mean a lot to me.  Thank you for sharing, the posts.

Human contact

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I'm on a site with loads of gorgeous women showing off their glorious tattoos and breast, yet these days I'm more interested in the communication. I log on and go to messages. I read through and comment on profile updates. I'm more excited when someone replies to a message or a comment than when they post new sets. This isolation has gotten to me so...
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melyse:
But, come on, wouldn't it be nice if people treated brain like they treat boobs? Haha really, I hate it, for example, when I'm live here - which it's usually to chat - and guys come simply asking to show body parts 😔 it's like we're no more than that... Come ooon, chat with ussss, it's good too! lol
inkedodie:
Maybe boobs need their own brains.  As long as they don't argue with each other.  The female body is a beautiful thing.  Nature's perfection.  However, a women's personality and intelligence is what sets her apart.
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