I’ve been on here about 4 years. I’ve had some good friendships grow and seen some people abuse other’s feelings. I want to share my story. Maybe others can identify. Hopefully some will understand. Hopefully we will be our best to each other.
I had a normal childhood until 15. Then severe arthritis crippled me. Total joint replacements. Reconstruction surgeries. Numerous medications and side affects. My life was stolen. Slowly and painfully. I battled my emotions for years. Never quite suicidal, but still taunting death in hopes it would take me. Mudvayne’s song Death Blooms was what I felt, as my life slipped away and my body that I was stuck in crumbled down. https://youtu.be/9nVvojfQVBY
Tattoos where one of the ways I took my life, my body back. I gave people pretty things to look at instead of the ugliness I felt. I shared what I valued, who I was. This site has continued my growth. I have found people here who have filled my loneliness. Not just models, but members as well. Don’t over look the value of other members. Don’t just focus on the models and their bodies. There are many of us on here that need help and can offer help. Reach out. As for the models, remember they are human beings too. Many with past and struggles. They appreciate the tips. Many appreciate various compliments of their figure. But remember they also value your words and your kindness. Ask them how they are. What they want. You will find they have so much more to offer than just the pictures and videos. To those of you, both members and models that have helped me on my journey, thank you. Please share these ideas. Please practice love and acceptance. Look out for each other and remind others of how you feel about them. Let them know, they are important.
Thank you
