So I was flirting with this girl over text tonight that I'd been talking to on Bumble. Already knew we weren't going to work as a relationship but we were going to have some casual fun, etc. She asked to pic swap. I told her my body is a bad look and she encouraged me to send anyway saying she doubted it. After sending, she immediately asked if I'd lost a lot of weight fast and if I'd ever considered skin removal surgery.

I said no because I wanted to keep trying to lose more and tone up a bit on my own before getting painful surgery my insurance prob wouldn't cover. But the tone had shifted from sexy talk so I told her if she wasn't feeling it anymore, that was fine.

She said she was "still processing." Holy fuck. Like, it's okay to have body standards and it's okay to not find someone attractive but damn, what a response. "After looking at you I'll have to reconsider if I want to fuck you."

Needless to say we are no longer talking lol. But don't worry, she made sure to remind me that she wasn't vapid before we parted ways. By saying it, I mean, not showing it.