inannamute

So it's almost the end of the year.
Woohoo..

I've actually really enjoyed myself this year, and have almost avoided my yearly december-depression (don't ask, but at least this year it's milder than most years)

One year ago almost exactly, I decided to dump yet another boyfriend, when he bashed down a door I was behind, refused to let me leave the house, and broke my phone when I tried to call 911 during a fight, which he started, over something I apparently had done... Eventually he came around to my point of view, in that, being over the age of 12, I wasn't actually required to 'check in' with my boyfriend every time my plans changed, given that he wasn't going to be around anyway for those plans to affect him.

Since I got rid of him, I've been pretty much consistently single, with the odd fling thrown in here and there, and I have to say, I've had fun.. got asked out by literally the two hottest and prettiest guys I've ever seen, had numerous other entertaining and less entertaining offers.. I've made a lot of money, I've spent a lot of money, I chose my own place to live by myself for the first time ever in my life, without input or interference by anyone else..

I've gone home to england to visit for the first time in 6 years.
I've made some awesome new friends, mostly thanks to this site.. I've done embarrassing things, and less embarassing things (I can't remember how to spell that word so I'm covering my bases by spelling it both possible combinations, given that at least one has to be right)..

I've read a lot of books, drunk a lot of drinks, and basically lived my life, without having any guy ruling over it or trying to make me do things I don't want to do.

I think maybe now I'm almost a grownup.. maybe.

Are you?