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When I was a senior in high school my parents both pushed me to go to college, even though I was not ready and had no idea what I wanted to do with myself. My mom told me that I could go anywhere I wanted and that it was in the divorce settlement that my dad had to pay for my entire school costs. So I ended up going to a school in New York, which pissed my dad off cause it was way more expensive than a state school in NJ. Anyway, what ended up happening was that a bunch of different loans were taken out and never re-paid. Whenever I would get angry letters I would give them to my dad and he swore up and down he was re-paying them. Well, the loans he took out did get re-paid, and these mysterious loans never did because no one was taking responsibility for them even though both my parents said they were. My mom told me again that my dad was responsible for them since he was supposed to pay for all my school as stated in the divorce decree. I learned though that the divorce decree states that he must pay if I had gone to a school in NJ not anywhere I wanted. I was mad about it all for a while but it's water under the bridge now. Instead of risking my relationships with both my parents I decided to just take the bull by the horns and start re-paying them, with dkmfc's support that is.