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imspectr:
HELL CITY! you must be there. I demand it!
ifyoushowmeyours:
hahaha Spec, i love you.
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elkah:
Love you, lady.
statice:
inspirational. i really like it!
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craftygrrl:
Well said. Too many words are wasted on things that don't really matter. Thanks for the add.
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creativity /krietvti, kri-/
noun
1.
the state or quality of being creative.
2.
the ability to transcend traditional ideas, rules, patterns, relationships, or the like, and to create meaningful new ideas, forms, methods, interpretations, etc.; originality, progressiveness, or imagination: the need for creativity in modern industry; creativity in the performing arts.
3.
the process by which one utilizes creative ability: Extensive reading stimulated his creativity....
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ollyp:
I've just finished a community theatre show, auditioned for another one, and working on a short story and novel.
skullgrid:
i... sketched a bunch of random shit while i was bored at work the other day wink
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tinsaurus:
PHEW! I totally need to positive re-inforcement, Sorry if I missed many whispers, chat was blitzing last night and I missed most of it! you're lovely x
misfit82:
Hey there fellow New Yorker. Thanks for adding me. smile
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slots:
LMOA
vegas is amazing hahaha
bluebird1:
Hahahahahaha, late night chat is the best.
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english_dave:
I get homesick when its grey here......frown
pale_fire:
I just hate pants! HATE. I'm finally being honest with myself about it.
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opinions, thoughts, feelings...

we all have them. i, however, have been spending a good deal of time lately thinking about the ways in which we do, or do not, express them. it seems as though we fall in to categories.

there are those who are constantly verbalizing their feelings. if you're looking for positive reinforcement, these would be the people with which to surround yourself....
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elkah:
I think the answer lies in finding out what kind of person you're dealing with. The most important thing to realize is that each of these behaviors can be spurred by many different states of mind. Say you find someone who's genuinely loving standing next to someone who's scared that nobody cares about them. Both of these people might behave as your first example describes, but the words of the first can be trusted while those of the second cannot. So, it's not the behavior that dictates which person is more genuine, but rather the type of person displaying that behavior.

I think there's very little benefit in having to play the guessing game, though if you're the kind of person who doesn't have the urge to wonder most of the time, that 2nd behavior could work out for you.

Expressing your true emotions is never the wrong choice, because it's the only way we can know one another. Safety has no place in romance, and the attempts people make to shelter themselves while trying to create a romance with someone will inevitably fail because that romance is contingent upon the vulnerability of its makers.
pale_fire:
I've made the mistake of begging for and listening to words when I should have been paying attention to actions.

I've also made the mistake of thinking that silence meant brooding and deeper mysteries to discover. Again, wrong there.

But these mistakes were made with certain people, and I honestly believe they're not truths across the board.

Rus's last paragraph said it better than I've ever been able to put it.
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ah, seattle.

i had an amazing time; wandering around a place you've never been can be extraordinarily exhilarating. i have always been a "planner"... often to the extreme, as in: planning each day out hour by hour. so, my goal was to plan as little as possible. many days were left to spur of the moment decisions, entering various establishments on a whim, and allowing...
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incinerate274149:
gazelle.
incinerate274149:
gazelle.
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yes, ladies and gentlemen, i am typing this from the comfort of seat 16C on an ever-so-hip flight, thanks to virgin america.

where am i headed, you ask? well, i'm taking a major step in the aforementioned pursuit of free spiritedness. i'm going to seattle. i figure that communing with nature, rain, and some wonderful people (not to mention an incredibly handsome sg user wink )...
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ifyoushowmeyours:
lady, you two have the same body. that's weird.
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let's face it, i'm getting too old to pull all nighters.

no, not the dirty kind, you perv... the kind where you're racing against the clock to get things done, you've got half an hour before you're supposed to be "waking up", and taking that power nap is far too dangerous, as you could perhaps be known for pressing snooze repeatedly.

this was my situation...
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elkah:
I'll see you when you wake up from hibernation.
incinerate274149:
i want to see you when i come back from Toronto....