hypnogogic

ok, to make a long story short...


last week end i had planned to go out of town.

normally i have my daughter on saturdays, so i pre-arranged this with the ex.

friday night i felt weird and went to the hospital. i have bronchitis, so i stayed in bed all weekend.

she called me twice saturday, i did not want to talk to her so i did not call her back until sunday.

i went to visit my daughter on sunday. the ex told me that i was rude and inconciderate because i did not tell her i was sick and that i treated her and my daughter very badly by not calling her back on saturday.

then she told me to leave the house and that i could not take my daughter to dinner.

i left so i would not cause a scene in front of my daughter.

i called after i left and told her that if she did not let me see my daughter that i would have the police escort me into the house

she called me back and told me i was irresponsible and that i do not deserve to see my daughter

she also told me that she would make sure that i only get to see her once every 2 weeks

all this because i took 1 saturday to myself.

i have my daughter every tue,wed,thurs night for 6 hours, every saturday for at least 12 hours plus every other sunday until 6:30

i dont live in the house, we are separated, yet i pay all the bills, utilities, house payment, car payment, insurance, gas, food and i give her 125 a week for clothes, movies, etc. i also just gave her 7,000 to pay for night school so she could have a career

just where in this scenario am i irresponsible?

im confused