hyenahell

uhg. i hate it when people get into arguements- not fist fights, i can deal with that- but verbal arguements at my bar.

i just had a great night with a friend. we went to the saints preseason opener, had a blast, then went to my bar afterwards. everything was going great, we were having fun, singing along to bad religion. then he gets into an arguement with one of my regulars.

like i said, i can break up fist fights. no problem. fuck sticks and stones. words are way harder to break up. so i left- there's maybe a half hour before i'm on the clock, anyway. i just can't take that shit. i hate it. it makes me sick...

i don't like to argue. i don't like to be the devil's advocate. maybe when i was younger, but it seems so fucking pointless now. why do people do this? why not just back away from it? when i'm at a bar, if i feel the conversation veering towards a subject on which i might disagree, i try to change the subject.

i don't think it means you're less of a man, or less opinionated, or less intellectual or what the fuck ever. again, why get into a heavy-duty arguement with someone at a bar? honestly, why? what does this validate within you? what does it prove?

someone help me out with this one. it makes me fucking sick.

anyway.

i've gotta go back to work in 15 minutes. have a good weekend, folks. much love.

-Hyena.