So this friend calls me. He calls me all the time for advise and vice/versa....well....he is seeing this lady. And although she is older, she is not very sexually experienced. Married for a long time to a rather uptight man who was very controlling.
Well anyway....so they have started having sex and things are going along ok and all but, he always goes down on her without any reciprocation. So he asked how to bring up the subject. I was like well, when your really into it ask her if she would like to try to 69. And you know what? It worked! She liked it except for feeling like maybe she was not good at it!
I just think bringing it up that way is so much better than 'do me now' or 'when is it my turn' because then there is too much presure and expectation.
Well anyway....so they have started having sex and things are going along ok and all but, he always goes down on her without any reciprocation. So he asked how to bring up the subject. I was like well, when your really into it ask her if she would like to try to 69. And you know what? It worked! She liked it except for feeling like maybe she was not good at it!
I just think bringing it up that way is so much better than 'do me now' or 'when is it my turn' because then there is too much presure and expectation.