Saturday Jun 13, 2009

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Not much has been happening in my life worth writing about.

I have been busting my ass at work hustling hours to make some bank paychecks. I finally have money and might get my tattoo!! WOO HOO!

I am visiting down in south Florida at my parents. It's a nice change of pace.

And in the boy department, I don't have any idea what is going on. My ex visits me, tells me he loves me, calls me all the time, wants to sleep over all the time, and says he loves having sex with me but tells me that he doesn't want to be with me. If we act like a couple, and dated for 5 years, why can't we just be together? Guys, any help would be amazing. lol
actionbastard:
I'd tell him to shit or get off the pot, so to speak. I know that's a horrible metaphor to use but I'm not very creative this early in the morning.

It frankly doesn't make sense why he wouldn't just be with you after 5 years of a relationship. It sounds like he's just using you to get some and he's not committing to a relationship because he has it made, he's getting some and doesn't have any strings attached. Of course he's going to tell you the things you want to hear just so you give into him and that is the power he'll have over you until you step up and tell him what you want, and if he doesn't it's probably time to give him the boot. You still have plenty of life ahead of you and therefore have plenty of opportunities to find someone who will give you everything you want.

My apologies for the rant, that's just how I see it though.
thisisrandy:

A friends with benefits situation is ideal for a lot of people. The key is to let the other person know that is what it is so they can choose to be ok with it or not. Operating under false pretense is just cowardly.

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