So, today, I was genuinely excited about getting a new tattoo. So I mentioned it to my husband and he didn't look very excited. So I asked him what was going on and he said "I don't understand why you're getting this tattoo. Are you going to show it to other people?" I said, no, its for me to enjoy and he said "So, this sucks, the only person who is going to see it is the person who doesnt even like it." Tattoos arent something new to me and he's ALWAYS known I have wanted more. Before I met him I was in a (shitty) relationship where the guy didnt agree with tattoos and put me down about having them. I am starting to get that awful feeling about them again and it really sucks.
I am still going to get it, because I want it, and I dont get tattoos for other people, but I am a little concerned that he's going to look at me differently or not want to look at me at all. I dont want to fell back into that relationship where I need to feel bad about having tattoos and wanting more.
Blahhhhh Im just in a weird mood lately!
I am still going to get it, because I want it, and I dont get tattoos for other people, but I am a little concerned that he's going to look at me differently or not want to look at me at all. I dont want to fell back into that relationship where I need to feel bad about having tattoos and wanting more.
Blahhhhh Im just in a weird mood lately!
a partner should never stop you from doing the things you want