I recently had my penis pierced ( frenum ) and it is taking some time to heal and this is getting very sexually frustrating. My girlfriend does her best to help me out but there is only so much she can do. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas or suggestions for me and please no smart ass comments , I am taking this very serious because it is causing me A LOT of sexual frustration .Second question is what do the ladies think of a frenum piercing ? Also I am washing it twice a day with anti-bacterial soap and soaking it at night for ten min is non iodized salt water as recommended .