grayness

Sadly I know there is a warrant but I don't know what state the warrant is actually in. I assume it's in the state he currently lives in but with as many kids as he has, there's no telling where the warrant actually sits.

And being afraid or not afraid of someone is no reason to treat family like shit. If you're willing to help one member or your family, you should be able to help the rest in the same way.

I've never really been a part of the "family" so it's not surprising. Plus the only people that know what he did is him and I. My told my mother when I was 16... the first time I admitted it to anyone but myself. She cried but it's her son, blah, blah, blah. And my grandmother was told the same time (over the phone) and she swears I made the whole thing up.