I have no energy to do anything and I don't know if I'm just exausted from working hard the last couple of weeks or if I'm just getting lazy and lacking motivation. I'm sleeping too much and not spending enough time at work.
Things are going good with the boy they're progressing but now, I'm starting to get scared. I'm really into him and I love him but he really, really doesn't want to leave the house. I want to respect who he is but at the same time I want my partner to travel with me. Over the next few years I want to go to Tahiti, New Zealand and Austrailia. I want the person I date to come with me. I can take a friend instead of a boyfriend but I don't want to have to pay to take a friend and all my friends are broke.
I get antsy when we stay in on the weekends too. I'm used to running around going to see a movie, out to dinner, something sporty, going to art galleries (who am I kidding I don't really go to art galleries that much) but I want the option of going. He's happy staying in. I'm happy staying in too just antsy 'cause I'm not used to it. I'm also concerned that staying in is going to lead to getting fat and unhealthy. What to do?
Things are going good with the boy they're progressing but now, I'm starting to get scared. I'm really into him and I love him but he really, really doesn't want to leave the house. I want to respect who he is but at the same time I want my partner to travel with me. Over the next few years I want to go to Tahiti, New Zealand and Austrailia. I want the person I date to come with me. I can take a friend instead of a boyfriend but I don't want to have to pay to take a friend and all my friends are broke.
I get antsy when we stay in on the weekends too. I'm used to running around going to see a movie, out to dinner, something sporty, going to art galleries (who am I kidding I don't really go to art galleries that much) but I want the option of going. He's happy staying in. I'm happy staying in too just antsy 'cause I'm not used to it. I'm also concerned that staying in is going to lead to getting fat and unhealthy. What to do?

star10764:
don't settle
