godess_akasha

So, this year so far I've been like fuck dating but now I'm thinking I may want to go on a date but just be picky about the person I go with which probably means no dates.
So my current worry is that I have become too material and guys will see me as high maintenance which I'm soo not but, I do have a pink razor and a pink iPod and some expensive clothes which I have purchased for myself. I just don't want people to notice the things first and assume I'm all about their cash. Though I can say that part of my pickiness is going to include the guy needs to be able to pay for himself wherever we go and needs to offer to pay for himself if we go out / order in, etc...Sorry but my last two boyfriends have not been financially able to contribute and I don't want to feel straped anymore. Is it wrong that this time around I do at least want them to able to pay for themselves?
It would also be nice if they made more dough than me I guess I just want someone who's able to stand on their own two feet and who might be able to help me if I needed it.
It just sucks because I feel I already have qualities that limit my dating pool like being overweight and smoking and now I'm just adding more limitations on an already small group.