Like I mentioned before a while back, my ex called me kinda outta the blue and dropped a bombshell on me: shes married now.
Now, we broke up like 2 years ago. Its not a recent thing, and its not like I had been really pining for her before she suddenly called.
But now we talk every few days, and we even got together once to talk, and basically the main convo is about her troubled marriage and her life with this guy, etc, and really, every time were done talking all I can do is hate myself a little more and hate my life (and lack there-of) a little more and feel like shit for not having done a damn thing with my life in the two years while she has done nothing but move forward in every single aspect of hers.
Dont get me wrong, Im thrilled for her personally. She really deserves nothing but the best. She is truly quality people. Really.
But these convos really do a number on me.
OK, Ill stop before I sound like a pathetic whiner.
Oh, too late
Now, we broke up like 2 years ago. Its not a recent thing, and its not like I had been really pining for her before she suddenly called.
But now we talk every few days, and we even got together once to talk, and basically the main convo is about her troubled marriage and her life with this guy, etc, and really, every time were done talking all I can do is hate myself a little more and hate my life (and lack there-of) a little more and feel like shit for not having done a damn thing with my life in the two years while she has done nothing but move forward in every single aspect of hers.
Dont get me wrong, Im thrilled for her personally. She really deserves nothing but the best. She is truly quality people. Really.
But these convos really do a number on me.
OK, Ill stop before I sound like a pathetic whiner.
Oh, too late
Sure enough I'll watch the remake, but I wish they hadn't tapped into an already great film.
Now mister, don't be down about the lady ex, yea she's doing something with her life, but she's calling you unhappy. She's stuck in a rut she can't get out of while you still have options and freedom. Miserable single is 100% better than miserable in a marriage.