ok, maybe i overrated, but isn't finding the following posted by your current bf enough to want to break things and or crawl up into a ball and hide?
http://washingtondc.craigslist.org/m4w/45816464.html
edited to say: talked to him on the phone tonight. the boy is pretending everything is hunky dory. what the hell? i played along. for the most part. not in the mood for big debates with 600 miles between us. still. i don't get him. yes, it's nice for him to be amicable, and i certainly want to remain friends with him- but after hurting me as much as he did- after me expressing this to him over and over again- and to just... pretend it never happened and discuss the weekend? well. it works. but-- eh. I just need to get to DC soon so I can talk to him about this in person- so he can't hide behind the phone and so I can maybe get a straight answer out of him. eh.
i did get a haircut yesterday. and some new makeup. i plan on lookin' like a hot fox just so he knows what he's loosing. yea, that's right, i have some confidence after all.
http://washingtondc.craigslist.org/m4w/45816464.html
edited to say: talked to him on the phone tonight. the boy is pretending everything is hunky dory. what the hell? i played along. for the most part. not in the mood for big debates with 600 miles between us. still. i don't get him. yes, it's nice for him to be amicable, and i certainly want to remain friends with him- but after hurting me as much as he did- after me expressing this to him over and over again- and to just... pretend it never happened and discuss the weekend? well. it works. but-- eh. I just need to get to DC soon so I can talk to him about this in person- so he can't hide behind the phone and so I can maybe get a straight answer out of him. eh.
i did get a haircut yesterday. and some new makeup. i plan on lookin' like a hot fox just so he knows what he's loosing. yea, that's right, i have some confidence after all.
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cruelty:
Wow. I am not necessarily recommending this, but you could have LOADS of fun with this... You could go visit him with a girlfriend of yours, and a couple of weeks before going, she could respond to his ad and suggest that she meet him somewhere. Don't tell him you're coming. Then the friend meets up with your b/f, only to have you walk in 20 minutes later to catch him red-handed! That would be AWESOME. But of course, I don't condone doing things like this to asshole b/fs... 
zwiebel:
you still want this guy as a boyfriend?