girlinterrupted

It's like a diary. Each post you can set so it's public, members only or friends only, so you get a bit of control on who reads. (side note: randomly stumbled on your blog as newly updated blogs show on a feed on the main page).

To answer your question, I have somewhat of the same struggle on my blogs, all my past ones failed because I couldn't figure out who/what/how censored, who's reading, omg omg, etc etc. In the end, I say fuck it. Be honest. Who are we to judge? We're all a little crazy.