Ok here is a reprint of @timjimmy 's great moment of insight, thankfully taken down on a cocktail napkin and preserved for posterity and the benefit of all male SG members...and for the Great benefit of all the ladies.
Pay attention!
This is a reprint from the Brothers of the Brush thread, which has some great blogs; check it out!
skisby:
I prefer the KISS (Keep It Simple Stupid) model & would stop at the first question! Yes - send away, No - Don't.
giotost20:
LOL yes @skisby, that is the short form! and very effective!