Thursday Mar 26, 2009

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I won a copy of "SuicideGirls: The Italian Villa"
yay me smile

& I really dig the new look of the front page, what do yall think of it???

Here is my current drama put in a spoiler for those who care....

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I have been trying to get with this boy Nate, he is my exboyfriends bestfriend although theyve only been friends about a year and we broke up over 2 years ago. Nate has been single for about 2 years also and has been stuck on his gorgeous ex, he has high standards because he's stuck on her and i'm the first person he's found to be worthy since her. flattered & amazed at how sexy he is, I went for it but my ex cockblocked and said no. we hung out as friends, I kissed him & flirted when my ex wasnt in the room and after a couple weeks my ex changed his mind and said it was ok while we all were on ecstasy and I brought a girl for my him. thanks to the ecstasy nate couldn't get hard even though I was all over him for hours and tried everything possible. Weve been texting and flirting since then and agreed to try again when I stay the night this weekend but now my ex is saying he will never be alright with this and it will ruin him & nates friendship forever. Of course he is only telling me this and telling nate its ok, go for it. Its only sex, although I like him a lot I am moving soon and I am hard to date anyway so is it worth ruining their friendship??? I need advice

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lillithvain:
Ohh advice... Ok here goes. If you are still friends with your X and respect his friendship that leave his friend and find someone else. There is a ton of guys out there anyway. I think your x is just kind of jealous that you are so attracted to his friend. I would be. If you are friends with your x don't do it. If you don't mind if he hates you then go for it. Though, I don't know if I would want to ruin anyone's friendship to get some booty. Is it going to be more than just booty? I guess there are a lot of factors that only you really know so the decision would really be up to you. If I were you I would just take some time to really think about it before you decide. smile

And.. random:

Oh no, you are being thanked for leaving me a comment on my set Deliverance in member review. Yes, you have received a copy-pasted message to thank you! However, you are being thanked because I appreciate the nice comment. So there! tongue

And in all honesty.... thank you so much for the nice comment. It means a lot to me. xoxoxox
tuesdae:
Thanks, and you're right, it really does. I'm still not in love with it, but I at least understand what and why.

I was in the same situation once, but I don't think I'd say the guys were BEST friends, just good friends. My ex said it was okay, whatever. I left out the part where they were in a band together. So one day the new guy brought me with to band practice and my ex basically started crying and left. He later on told the other guy in the band that "it was only awkward because my new guy and I were all over each other" ...when we weren't. We only even looked at each other when he wasn't in the room. It didn't end up working out, but for what it's worth, the guys were still friends after. I stopped talking to them both.

My current boyfriend's best friend recently was hanging out with my bf's ex and my boyfriend was fine with it, because he doesn't have feelings for his ex at all, lucky for his friend though, he came to his senses and got away from that.

Personaly, I would think it would be worth it if there were feelings there besides lust. But I wouldn't be willing to come between best friends just for sex. Unless of course you could get the best friend alone sometime when the ex doesn't know you're hanging out wink

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