Conundrum: I had my fourth date, such as it is, with a lovely lady this weekend. She is very nice and cool and smart and hot and is all ways attractive to me. I'd be really excited about the possibilities but: She's got 2 kids. And up until meeting her I thought I was totally not into kids. At least not right now. But right now I wonder. What to do? How long can we date before we have to discuss? Am I already leading down the primrose path? Ack. Go away brain.
Also, I am old.
Also, I am old.
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nyssa:
Have you met her kids yet? I think you should at least meet them, and definitely tell her about your hesitation concerning children. The thing is that she may be looking for a dad for her kids or she may be wanting to just date and have a good time . You could go into it thinking, yeah, I could get into being a dad and she could be going into thinking - hey, I really like this guy to be a booty call that's cool to hang out with. Or, vice versa. Communication is important in every relationship. I'd say, talk to her soon, just casually, you don't have to get all serious and scare her with that, but have an adult conversation about your relationship and it's impact on her children.
fatality:
Welcome to the Halo!