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geekwithaguitar

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Thursday May 27, 2004

May 27, 2004
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so i get a call today from my friend liz, who also works at berretts. she knows about the whole "being stood up" thing and so she talked to the girl about it. didn't tell her that i was mad or that she knew i got stood up, just acted like she knew we were supposed to go out. oh, the girls name is Kirsten, by the way. anyway, kirsten apparently told liz that she just doesn't call guys. she's old fashioned and kind of shy about it anyway, and she was really upset about what had happened. liz is like "just ask her for her number and then call her." then i go into work and kirsten finds me and without any prompting gives me her number and appologizes and says to call her tonight to meet her and some other people at the green leaf (a bar) for a drink.....

so now i'm really confused. i don't know if i should be mad at her or forgive her and get over it or what. i mean, i'm still pissed about it, but she did appologize and try to sort of make up for it.....i guess. but is that enough? i don't know. do i call her? i went to the green leaf without calling her and got a beer, but she was occupied with talking to everyone else, and me and the other dude from the kitchen just sat at our end of the table and had a beer and then left. she smiled at me. but still, do i call her or just drop it or what?

fuck, it would have been so much easier if she'd just been a bitch and i could have been like "fuck her!" and gotten wasted.

someone (read: you girls) please explain to me and instruct me.
dragonflycq:
Well....if she wanted you to call her that same night, to go out that same night she gave you her number, and you went out, and sat at the end of the table without much talking (ie. that all happened in one night)....ummm...give her one call. Did you think she was that shy when you guys were first talking? I'd say, to get to the bottom of her alleged 'shyness', try taking her out once. Without so many people around. Give her a call, and ask her for something simple, like, maybe just the two of you grab a drink after work, or meet up at the mall for a little shopping and a coffee (girls usually un-tense up when they're shopping). That way there's plenty of other people around, but they're doing their own thing and won't interfere with you trying to talk to her. If she still acts like this with no kind of repreve (ie. no hug, kiss, handshake, 'thanks', or nuthin'), don't bother with it anymore. So many fuckers out there are just totally crazy, that if there's one thing i've learned is to, not question that shit right off the bat. If there aren't immediate 'sparks' or at least nice 'similarities', i get the fuck out. think about it...would you want your dream girl to be all weird to you and make you work harder at getting her to like you, or would you want her to be assertive, and friendly, and inquisitive into your life?

just my 2 cents....one crazy woman's perspective wink
May 28, 2004
dragonflycq:
Ooo, does she go to W&M??? Does she wear khaki's? Does she like metal? Or is she just a cute girl you wanna make out with? How old is she? Is she from Will'burg? Can I ask you anymore questions? confused
May 28, 2004

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