*So I was going to make this into a skit as well but it would have been FAR too long, therefore, i shall just explain.*
One of my best guy friend had an issue Saturday night, got so drunk off his ass that they had to call the paramedics, cannot believe someone didn't stop him sooner but, ya know. So he messages me on Sunday telling me about it. So firsts I'm shocked, then I'm angry and I'm totally convienced he's drinking his depression away *clinically depressed that is* but thats not even the beginning of it so let me continue... So then last night he hits me up on aim and the usual 'hey how are u' and tells me he's going to Australia for a week or two. First off he met this girl there four years ago in high school when our high school band went touring there *myself included* and SOMEHOW they have kept in contact this whole time. *key fact she's 10 years his senior* So basically he's going there to see her... right... anyhow, she's even PAYING for him to come, not to mention letting him stay in her house... either way I vote it's just not right in a multitude of ways but it's his call. So then he started this speal about how he's in SO much debt and not going to get any finicial this year because he flunked out last spring and therefore he has to pay 'out of pocket' with money he doesn't have....blah blah blah, so now I'm just frustrated and sick of hearing it all and he KEEPS TALKING!! So i try to lightly blow him off, say I'm upset and don't feel like talking... Then it become a hugh speal about money problems, needing time away from it all, not to mention the setting in for him that he nearly killed himself over an ex and his aniversary... what a dumb ass... but anyhow, yea and then i told him i didn't want him to go to australia... and he DEMANDED to know why.. and the truth was im crushing on him and i told him.... and then he acted shocked (even though WE'VE both know FOREVER.) and he said cool... and move on... I KNOW he likes me, but i guess I've done so much conviencing him not to (since i had a bf) that he's playing with me i swear... idk it just hurt and now i've blocked his # and account.... i hope things work out but i don't want to talk to him right now, he hurt me a bit...
One of my best guy friend had an issue Saturday night, got so drunk off his ass that they had to call the paramedics, cannot believe someone didn't stop him sooner but, ya know. So he messages me on Sunday telling me about it. So firsts I'm shocked, then I'm angry and I'm totally convienced he's drinking his depression away *clinically depressed that is* but thats not even the beginning of it so let me continue... So then last night he hits me up on aim and the usual 'hey how are u' and tells me he's going to Australia for a week or two. First off he met this girl there four years ago in high school when our high school band went touring there *myself included* and SOMEHOW they have kept in contact this whole time. *key fact she's 10 years his senior* So basically he's going there to see her... right... anyhow, she's even PAYING for him to come, not to mention letting him stay in her house... either way I vote it's just not right in a multitude of ways but it's his call. So then he started this speal about how he's in SO much debt and not going to get any finicial this year because he flunked out last spring and therefore he has to pay 'out of pocket' with money he doesn't have....blah blah blah, so now I'm just frustrated and sick of hearing it all and he KEEPS TALKING!! So i try to lightly blow him off, say I'm upset and don't feel like talking... Then it become a hugh speal about money problems, needing time away from it all, not to mention the setting in for him that he nearly killed himself over an ex and his aniversary... what a dumb ass... but anyhow, yea and then i told him i didn't want him to go to australia... and he DEMANDED to know why.. and the truth was im crushing on him and i told him.... and then he acted shocked (even though WE'VE both know FOREVER.) and he said cool... and move on... I KNOW he likes me, but i guess I've done so much conviencing him not to (since i had a bf) that he's playing with me i swear... idk it just hurt and now i've blocked his # and account.... i hope things work out but i don't want to talk to him right now, he hurt me a bit...
he'll come around if it's meant to be, but i think you should let him talk to you when you're ready.
good luck
-=b