When people have you wrapped around their finger, they take your caring for granted and they really shouldnt. Feelings are something you shouldnt play with, even when things are cut and dry. When someone really cares about you on whatever level, dont you want them there in your life? Or is it just a big joke, and when they turn their back you crack jokes about how gullible and stupid they truely are. I wish I had not feelings, things would be so easy. 