Well my ex-gf Frankie is back in town... seems one of her endometriotic-cysts burst while she was working up at camp, so she had to come back a bit earlier than expeced to go to the Doctor. Today they removed her right ovary, and cleaned up the endometriotic-cysts that were on the Left ovary. Hopefully... this will stop her pain, and with birth control... the endometriosis will stop growing. 
Sugery went VERY well.. and the surgeon didn't have to make a big insision... as they were able to remove the ovary by Scope. YAY! This means faster recovery, and 5 small holes instead of a hip to hip insision!
I am so happy for her. I went to see her at lunch today, after she got out of the Operating room. She had the Teddy Bear I gave her, and was using it as a pillow. So cute. She was still pretty drugged on Morphine, but we talked and I held her hand. It was really nice. I have missed her so much.
I know my therapist probably wouldn't agree with me going to see her today... but fuck her... I am going to be there for my best friend during her hard time. Sure, it does bring up feelings for her... and her for me... but it wouldn't feel right for me not to be there for her.
I went to the cabin this weekend by myself... to relax and clear my head. I'm not sure I got much actual thinking done... but laying in the sun and just being was nice too.
However, My roomie, the one I had said was awesome... well... She's not-so awesome anymore, she's decided she needs to move out because her job requires her to have a local phone number. Now, I don't have a landline... just my cell phone, but she has a cell-phone as well.... Even though it's a Nova Scotia Number, and with Koodo Mobile. She says she can't afford rent + a phone line ($30)... and she doesn't want to change her mobile number because she gets free calling to her fave 5, and canada-wide long distance or some shit.... so she's going to move out over a fuckign phone? I mean, I already pay for cable tv (when that wasn't supposed to be included in her rent) and internet... and I don't need another phone.... so buck up and pay $30 for a landline... geez. I am starting to think it's not REALLY about the phone.... but whatever. The stupid cunt can Eat a dick.. perferably one with sphillis and/or herpes.
Sugery went VERY well.. and the surgeon didn't have to make a big insision... as they were able to remove the ovary by Scope. YAY! This means faster recovery, and 5 small holes instead of a hip to hip insision!
I am so happy for her. I went to see her at lunch today, after she got out of the Operating room. She had the Teddy Bear I gave her, and was using it as a pillow.
So cute. She was still pretty drugged on Morphine, but we talked and I held her hand. It was really nice. I have missed her so much.
I know my therapist probably wouldn't agree with me going to see her today... but fuck her... I am going to be there for my best friend during her hard time. Sure, it does bring up feelings for her... and her for me... but it wouldn't feel right for me not to be there for her.
I went to the cabin this weekend by myself... to relax and clear my head. I'm not sure I got much actual thinking done... but laying in the sun and just being was nice too.
However, My roomie, the one I had said was awesome... well... She's not-so awesome anymore, she's decided she needs to move out because her job requires her to have a local phone number. Now, I don't have a landline... just my cell phone, but she has a cell-phone as well.... Even though it's a Nova Scotia Number, and with Koodo Mobile. She says she can't afford rent + a phone line ($30)... and she doesn't want to change her mobile number because she gets free calling to her fave 5, and canada-wide long distance or some shit.... so she's going to move out over a fuckign phone? I mean, I already pay for cable tv (when that wasn't supposed to be included in her rent) and internet... and I don't need another phone.... so buck up and pay $30 for a landline... geez. I am starting to think it's not REALLY about the phone.... but whatever. The stupid cunt can Eat a dick.. perferably one with sphillis and/or herpes.
akajudge:
that sucks about your roommate, but good on you for sticking by your friend. I'm no therapist, but I would have a hard time telling someone not to see a loved one (even an ex) in her situation.