0
Calling the Districts Attorney's office this morning to find out how to get legally separated...

wish me luck.

I really just have to get this over with. everytime i talk about it with my ex he says, "I'll take half of this, and I'll take half of that, oh wait till you get your bonus this year, half of it will be mine!!!!'

THEN he...
Read More
VIEW 5 of 5 COMMENTS
ta2dmom:
I hope you get things taken care of with the ex. Oh and tell him that you probably won't have to pay him alimony. It's very very rare for someone to get it. My sister had to fight tooth and nail for hers and ultimately got it because A) she kept the kids (and got child support) and B) it was proven that she was trying to do something better for herself by going to school. And as soon as she's done with school, her alimony is also done. Sounds like he's being a lazy ass and just wanting to be a jerk.
My ex bro in law didn't get shit! Of course, he walked out on them after buying them a house that was falling apart and left her to "fix it up" on her own. (another reason for the alimony, he picked the house and then left her with it, so his alimony was just the difference on making the house payment after the child support)

Oh and believe me, I was soooooo happy that he chose to use the tape instead of directly on his face. I know, if he hadn't found the tape, he would've gone to town on his face. eeek

I'm glad it's not just me that cries like that at those commercials. I even cry when the happy ones are shown. D'OH!
wink
throttlebitch:
Alot of people I've met here have lived here their whole lives. It's strange because when I lived in Seattle almost everyone was from somewhere else. I'm seriously loving it though. The diversity and acceptance of so many lifestyles and cultures is so refreshing/comfortable/still something I'm getting used to. You're lucky this has been your paradigm and that your kids are having such a great environment to grow up in.
0
I really need to start going to bed earlier. Six am rolls around much more quickly than anticipated. I was having the best dream, some relative I barely knew was sick for decades, then died and left me some money. I was able to get my own place, pay all my bills, and buy my kids lots of great toys and clothes.

I really need...
Read More
VIEW 3 of 3 COMMENTS
dr_bob:
Thanks for your kind words. kiss
I got a second harddrive for my PC. A SATA/300 Seagate, 1 terabyte(32mbcache).
seann:
you spend your life looking for defects and you find me... should i be worried or flattered ?
0
VIEW 3 of 3 COMMENTS
ravioli:
oh the psw chat room is where it is at. the main chat is chaotic and it can be really rude in there but lielock and i hang out in the psw group chat room a bunch so you should come in and chit chat with us when you get the chance!
brightredscream:
Awwww cute smile
I haven't been to the zoo in a long time.
0
Later Friday night:
I just got home from an AA meeting and found that I have been thinking really dirty thoughts about a couple of the men at the meeting.
I have been thinking about guys more in a sexual manner lately. Right after I left my ex, I couldn't even fathom getting intimate with another man (or woman, for that matter). wink

I guess this...
Read More
hozer:
I didnt accomplish much actual work this week either so dont feel bad. I think the worst time i have is there are a lot of cute girls at work and I am management so iI cant flirt etc. Its frustrating.
0
Yay it's almost Friday. Maybe I will get my shit done at work and leave a little early.

I have thought about my post about bitching and complaining, and it's true - we all need to vent about things. I think the key is to get it off your chest, look for a solution, then move on. I have listedend to friends, co-workers, shit, my...
Read More
brightredscream:
Well thank you very much smile
0
WTF! ? !
it is amazing how many people complain endlessly about NOTHING. There are people ou there with real problems, why don't folks understand how lucky they really are.
I don't know, I am sure that I bitch and rant about shit that really doesn't matter from time to time, but I am working on remaining grateful for the things that I have. For...
Read More
hozer:
People complain and bitch a lot of times to just get it out. Sometimes getting it out is what it takes but they dont consider the affect it has on those that have to listen to it. I can sympathize with you on the getting some.
lielock:
I bitch and complain I would like to think my issues are valid or at least I find them unbearable at times. Granted I am not starving or getting shot at but I feel as though somethings need to get out or well as a single mom (sure you can understand this) it will eat at you and then you will be on edge for when your kids irk you just a little.
I wanna watch that movie.
I need some as well.
0
I went out and got new car keys. I never found mine so i had to buy new ones, have my car TOWED to the dealership, and have them programmed to work in my car!!!
Since i was at the shop already, i asked for an oil change (about 110 miles overdue anyway)

$250 later... i got two new fucking keys and my car. yay....
Read More
hozer:
The worst part is now that you paid for all this, youll find your keys. Tough luck, keep your chin up though.
0
i lost my fucking car keys. in my own fucking house no less.

grrr

going to take a long hot bath and try to clear my mind & say a prayer to st. anthony.


grrrrr. mad
monirose:
LMAO!! haha

Now im little less angry...lol..

thank you love...
0
I know it sounds corny, but I don't care. I am so happy to be alive and enjoying life. I found out yesterday that my ex got another DUI. He says he doesn't have a problem with alcahol, but I have a feeling he is full of crap.

Anyway, today I can seperate myself from his drama. I am only concerned that this may affect...
Read More
0
yaay it is officially the weekend, unofficially, i will have to work. oh well, at least i get to do it with my jammies on. i hope the weather isn't ucky here, i want to get out and do something fun.

i have been so turned on by a few of the boys that i've seen on here (and by some of the girls, too)...
Read More
luxdeadfrog:
Glad you feel good, so many don't (including me) after a separation, it probably means you have let go of the baggage. Have fun in bed and no changing partners half way. smile