it's amazing how a change in the weather can make you so happy. it's gorgeous out. growing up down south, i guess i was spoiled always having beautiful weather. i'm not sure if i can remain in the northeast forever... beautiful days like this make me wonder if i'll ever be able to truly get used to the winter. i love leaving the windows open and letting the cool breeze blow in, and sitting on my terrace while reading a book. so nice! have a great day everyone!!
oh, and update on the boy situation - as soon as you tell them you won't talk to them anymore, they come crawling back. why? they cheat, they admit it, then come back begging to hang out again. and once you give in and talk to them again, they think everything's back to how it was before. it doesn't work like that!!!!
at least he was honest, i guess. i can't throw stones b/c i too have cheated. and i've definitely cheated and kept it a secret. so maybe i should forgive him because at least he was honest about it? i know that i'd want to be forgiven. but he should at the least be kissing my ass, which he's not. if he were buying me flowers and doing sweet things for me, it'd probably be easier for me to forgive him... if he really showed me why and how much he cares (if he actually does).
i guess the fact that he cheated really is a sign that he doesn't care, though.
oh, and update on the boy situation - as soon as you tell them you won't talk to them anymore, they come crawling back. why? they cheat, they admit it, then come back begging to hang out again. and once you give in and talk to them again, they think everything's back to how it was before. it doesn't work like that!!!!
at least he was honest, i guess. i can't throw stones b/c i too have cheated. and i've definitely cheated and kept it a secret. so maybe i should forgive him because at least he was honest about it? i know that i'd want to be forgiven. but he should at the least be kissing my ass, which he's not. if he were buying me flowers and doing sweet things for me, it'd probably be easier for me to forgive him... if he really showed me why and how much he cares (if he actually does).
i guess the fact that he cheated really is a sign that he doesn't care, though.
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I'm FLA as well but I do not miss the heat and humidity!
good luck with the boy,
XoXo
So you cheated on your boy and then he cheated on you? He doesn't know you cheated. Why didn't you tell him. That seems like an odd situation! I hope everything works out.