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Life has been overwhelming me lately and I'm definitely on my way to burn out. Work is super busy, with the parents becoming more and more of a problem, one of my best employees quitting last week (to go to a more appropriate job) and the subsequent reviewing of resumes and doing interviews and hopefully hiring and training someone, friends and family going through
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dicentra:
You deserve happiness so much. From what I know, your life isn't going to be everything you ever hoped for but I know you will always enjoy and appreciate the good times and make many amazing memories. It's even worth putting up with the shit for! ❤️
fredhincanada:
@dicentra Thank you. I appreciate the sentiment and you. ❤️ Yes, I always try to find the positive.
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Seven years ago, to the day, I came home from dropping my niece off at the Airport, to the love of my life telling me she wanted a divorce.


It’s also National Chicken Wing Day.

Guess which one I decided to celebrate today? 😬


(Left is Parmesan Herb, Right is Honey Garlic)

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sdawg74:
@fredhincanada sorry to hear.
fredhincanada:
@sdawg74 Water under the bridge, my friend. Now it’s SG and wings!
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One of the things I love about the SG community is that everyone can be free to be themselves. As open or closed as they like, as happy or sad, as chatty or quiet as they choose. True, some people come here for the nudity and sexuality, but many of the people I have encountered here are just that; people. Living life and sharing
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dicentra:
That 'knowing' feeling was the same one I had, when my sister lost her daughter. Also, I know what you mean about signs that they are okay afterwards. Things like that are really amazing. Especially for people like us, I think. Even though we don't believe in religion etc it still provides comfort. I don't know about you but for me it still gets me thinking, I don't believe this could be all there is... whether we ever find that out, or not. Judy sounds like she was an amazing woman, the way you talk about her would make anyone want to know her. I absolutely love that, when someone can talk so positively about the people in their lives, even behind their back. She would be happy to know how loved she was and that would have provided some comfort to her. I know it's a horrible thought to think of someone suffering and being scared like that. I feel that, even about animals and people I don't know. I think the most important thing though, is that when we die, people around us can say "I am so happy I knew them, so proud of the person they were." I know, that's what I would hope for. That's exactly what it sounds like Judy made people feel about her. There's no positive thing about death, but she is free from pain and fear and I have no doubt that she'd say she was happy to have known you too. I know this is an older post but it's recent enough for me to want to have acknowledged it and I know you will always feel the same way.
fredhincanada:
@dicentra I still miss my friend greatly, and wish her and I could talk and catch up. It still breaks my heart.
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Today I lost someone I love. My friend J passed away in the Hospital surrounded by family and friends, but I wasn’t able to be there with her.

I have been crying all day. It broke my heart.

I’ve known J since grade school, and she always had a kind heart, a joyful spirit, and a welcoming smile.

She was there for me during my
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spectral_line:
To the  The good times ... May those memories help give you comfort RIP Judy
fredhincanada:
@spectral_line Thank you. Those memories live on in me.
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Yeah, I know I’m late. Technically, it’s Summer here, but I promised that I’d do this questionnaire and it’s been weighing on me for a while, so let’s get ‘er done! Thank you to @weedfarmer for creating it and thank you to @richsquared , @rare , @realwildangel , @kungfury , @jjtjames5x , and @tastyzombie for nominating me. I shall not forget the ... "kindness."
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darcydiamond:
I'll attempt to do this... this week coming up!
fredhincanada:
@darcydiamond Good girl. 😉
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Way back on May 1st, I was celebrating my Birthday at a nearby club with my friend @darcydiamond. We were up to our normal antics and she had to step away for a minute, so I checked my phone. When I logged into SG, I discovered that I was one of the winners of @penny’s A-MAY-zing Spring Challenge. Which only added to my
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mabellesg:
Wooow 🤩🔥
fredhincanada:
@mabellesg Agreed!  💕
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kungfury:
Yeah got a few sets selected for my upcoming blog. Just trying not to make it too big. Takes time lol. Good luck with your blog, I’m sure it’ll be just too sweeeeeet. 😎🤘🏻 NWO 4 life!!
fredhincanada:
@kungfury Lol. Nice. Thank you.