Sometimes I hate Sundays. First off I was kinda a sad panda because I was looking forward to meeting Gidgette, but her lame photographer canceled on her at the last minute. I swear I will get to meet this girl sometime haha.
But yeah I went into my grandparents house before hand and I think my mother and grandmothers favorite pastime is making other people feel like shit. I told them about my anniversary with my boy coming up in a few days, which is five years by the way, and the responses I got was a "who cares" and "you're not married so it doesn't count". Yes this is again my mom and grandma. I then proceeded to tell them I was going to meet Gidgette at a tattoo shop and got a 20 minutes lecture on how I'm not allowed to ever get tattoos. They constantly talk down on everyone. It's like they're unhappy so no one else is allowed to be happy ya know.
They also like to make weight comments to my 15 year old sister that make her feel like shit as well. My sister also told me today that my mom suggested that when she decides to get married that is should be for money...
I also have a cousin the same age as me in college right now. And my family was discussing him today and saying he was really sick right now and school was stressing him out A LOT. He's lost almost 70lbs in the last few months due to stress, but my family basically talked as if the degree was much more important than his health and that he would get by somehow.
It's reasons like these that make me was to elope. Because I don't want these people to witness the happiest moments of my life because I know they would find someway to fuck it up for me.
Now I'm off to work from 7-2am. I have two days off then for my anniversary...
I'm gonna get hammered
Had to edit this before I left for work...I'm buying this the fucking day it comes out. The Devil Went Down to Georgia is on it for fucks sake!!!
But yeah I went into my grandparents house before hand and I think my mother and grandmothers favorite pastime is making other people feel like shit. I told them about my anniversary with my boy coming up in a few days, which is five years by the way, and the responses I got was a "who cares" and "you're not married so it doesn't count". Yes this is again my mom and grandma. I then proceeded to tell them I was going to meet Gidgette at a tattoo shop and got a 20 minutes lecture on how I'm not allowed to ever get tattoos. They constantly talk down on everyone. It's like they're unhappy so no one else is allowed to be happy ya know.
They also like to make weight comments to my 15 year old sister that make her feel like shit as well. My sister also told me today that my mom suggested that when she decides to get married that is should be for money...
I also have a cousin the same age as me in college right now. And my family was discussing him today and saying he was really sick right now and school was stressing him out A LOT. He's lost almost 70lbs in the last few months due to stress, but my family basically talked as if the degree was much more important than his health and that he would get by somehow.
It's reasons like these that make me was to elope. Because I don't want these people to witness the happiest moments of my life because I know they would find someway to fuck it up for me.
Now I'm off to work from 7-2am. I have two days off then for my anniversary...
I'm gonna get hammered
Had to edit this before I left for work...I'm buying this the fucking day it comes out. The Devil Went Down to Georgia is on it for fucks sake!!!
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*hugs* I don't know what gives people the right to think that they're better than everyone else. It's pathetic!
From what your describing, your family really won't make your day a happy one.
Take it from me who had TONS of drama thanks to family before her wedding