well now i am on a quest to find me. i want to know who i am and what i stand for. all my life i have fallowed my boyfriend, and now its all about me. i am happy cause i am on my own but i am sad cause i hurt someone i care about in this proccess i hope he understands, but i am not to sure. 
hurting those that you care about is part of the trip. i think there's no getting around that one.
follow your heart and discover yourself, but never forget the sacrifices and the pain that get you there, for you and for those that care
i wish i had had the courage to do what you have done a long time ago!