We met over a discussion about honesty in chat if you recall.
I am not a big fan of being fully honest as it is based on your truth not your collective truth. People warm to each other a bit at a time. You two have history and are each a special piece of work. Your collective truth is built on mutual trust. This trust is built in small ways every time you communicate with each other. Maybe even if he accepts your offer and observations, who he sees himself as cannot accept it (if things are too simple, too obvious). Do the best you can and accept what comes. We are all a bit crazy. It is super cool when we meet people crazy like us
Id say, you suspect K is your one tru love but when it comes down to it you just want to spend some quality time with him and see how it goes. Then on a day to day basis make your relationship everything you think it can be. We only have the moment we are in right now. Make that moment as rad as you can. Then, over time you realize the relationship you know in your heart is there.
I am not a big fan of being fully honest as it is based on your truth not your collective truth. People warm to each other a bit at a time. You two have history and are each a special piece of work. Your collective truth is built on mutual trust. This trust is built in small ways every time you communicate with each other. Maybe even if he accepts your offer and observations, who he sees himself as cannot accept it (if things are too simple, too obvious). Do the best you can and accept what comes. We are all a bit crazy. It is super cool when we meet people crazy like us
Id say, you suspect K is your one tru love but when it comes down to it you just want to spend some quality time with him and see how it goes. Then on a day to day basis make your relationship everything you think it can be. We only have the moment we are in right now. Make that moment as rad as you can. Then, over time you realize the relationship you know in your heart is there.
Is this helpful at all?
::worried glance::
you are so brave.