In psychology there is something called double binds.
For example....Father says to son...
"Arn't you going to give your Daddy a kiss?" Then he says....
"Don't be soppy, boys don't kiss their Dad!" followed by something like...
"Whats the matter don't you love your old Dad?"
Awful 'eh?
Well, my internal negative talk has been doing that to me for hours.
However, I have pulled through and have overcome my own internal sabotuer!
I RULE!
Hope you're having a great weekend!
FF
xxx
For example....Father says to son...
"Arn't you going to give your Daddy a kiss?" Then he says....
"Don't be soppy, boys don't kiss their Dad!" followed by something like...
"Whats the matter don't you love your old Dad?"
Awful 'eh?
Well, my internal negative talk has been doing that to me for hours.
However, I have pulled through and have overcome my own internal sabotuer!
I RULE!
Hope you're having a great weekend!
FF
xxx
mrsfulks:
Yes u do rule
mrsted_stryker:
I do that on everything from what underwear to wear to how much money I need to save to move. EVERYTHING gets an internal struggle with me. My head swims one way and my heart another...guess that means I am a pisces! 