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excerpts from an AIM convo between me an' a good good friend of mine:

Flippntrance: and i dun think i'm "different" enough for 'er
DJ Project Rain: hmmm
DJ Project Rain: sometimes girls like that end up with guys like us
DJ Project Rain: I've seen it!
DJ Project Rain: seriously
Flippntrance: you lie
Flippntrance: *slappity slap* that's no good
DJ Project Rain: I no lie
DJ Project Rain: cause it always made me wonder how a guy like us got a girl like that
DJ Project Rain:
Flippntrance: *le sigh*
DJ Project Rain: hehe
Flippntrance: laff it up smilie
DJ Project Rain: hey... YOU need to see if she would be cool if you ever came to visit ;-)
DJ Project Rain: to hangout
DJ Project Rain: ya know?
Flippntrance: huh
Flippntrance: oh i can see it now..."Hi...you don't -really- know me...but i'm gonna drive 6 hours to <place> to hang out an' whatnot. That cool w/ you?"
Flippntrance: *dies laughing*
DJ Project Rain: not like that silly
DJ Project Rain: lol
DJ Project Rain: I'm saying that she probably loves meeting new people who are cool people
DJ Project Rain: (you)
Flippntrance: why thank you lil' bro
DJ Project Rain: welcome
DJ Project Rain: so you see, I bet she would be flattered if you wanted to meet her due to her person, not just her looks like most people want to meet her for O:-)
DJ Project Rain: a girl like her (**example dealing w/ beautiful women on the intarweb**) gets people that only want to meet her because she is hot and is on a website in one way or another... so if someone like yourself wanted to meet her for "who she is" rather than "what she is" I am sure she would love that
DJ Project Rain: and it wouldn't be you being "false" either
DJ Project Rain: so....?
DJ Project Rain: you know what I am sayin now?
Flippntrance: yah i getit man...but how does one go about showing someone that -=that=- is the intention, not the former
Flippntrance: without LOOKING like yer trying to convince them of something that is false
DJ Project Rain: ?
Flippntrance: ok your turn to not understand
Flippntrance: let me try and flip it around
DJ Project Rain direct connection is closed.
Flippntrance: so you say just let her know that i want to meet her to learn -who- she is, not want to meet her for her looks. That sounds like some player's line...and i'm about as far from a player as they come...
DJ Project Rain: well I suppose it "could" sound that way.... perhaps your right
DJ Project Rain: heh
Flippntrance: oh thanks timmy
DJ Project Rain: :-P hey 'm just tryin to throw some suggestions your way bro
DJ Project Rain: ;-)
Flippntrance: =P
DJ Project Rain: or you could just... get to know her as well as you can online or whatever and see if anything comes about
DJ Project Rain: O:-)
Flippntrance: yah i guess. been tryin that via email an' whatnot. guess she's just not down w/ that kinda thing
DJ Project Rain: hmmm maybe not
DJ Project Rain: in which case the only way you will get to really "meet" her will be in person
DJ Project Rain: and that.. is all up to how you want to go about it
Flippntrance: *sighs and rolls eyes* you are helping not at all lol
DJ Project Rain: lol
Flippntrance: *punt*
DJ Project Rain: *runs* muahahaha
DJ Project Rain: just be like....
DJ Project Rain: I'm a Trance DJ baby
DJ Project Rain: I actually said that to a girl on AIM a few days ago lol
Flippntrance: lmao you didn't
DJ Project Rain: yea I did
Flippntrance: what came of it
DJ Project Rain: she was like... so what things are you into and what are you all about?
DJ Project Rain: so I was like "I'm a Trance DJ baby!!!!!"
DJ Project Rain: she was like "REALLY? Djs are hot!!"
DJ Project Rain: LOL
Flippntrance: lmao you gotta be kiddin me
DJ Project Rain: nope
DJ Project Rain: I found that girls LOVE Djs man
Flippntrance: do -not- exploit that aspect of our hobby or i'll disown you as my padawan learner
DJ Project Rain: the cool thing is you don't even have to brag about it or show off.... when they ask you what you do and are into just let them know that you are "in fact" a DJ and they love that
Flippntrance: lol
Flippntrance: i try to shy away from the "I'm a DJ" thing
DJ Project Rain: I am the most "non forward" person ever. So naturally I am shy about it just how I am about everything and I had a HOT friend of mine (female) tell me that the shy, non gloating ones get all the women
DJ Project Rain: I was like... WHAT!!
Flippntrance: *nods* mhmm...that's what they 'say'...and it's all lies
DJ Project Rain: hehe
DJ Project Rain: prolly
Flippntrance: they want a hardass that's soft inside
DJ Project Rain: hehe
DJ Project Rain: that is so true
DJ Project Rain: or at least ALOT of the time
Flippntrance: not someone like me...the opposite. Straightlaced on the outside...and in social contexts...but naaaaaaaasty inside
DJ Project Rain: true true
DJ Project Rain: :-P
DJ Project Rain: women are so....
DJ Project Rain: hard to understand lol
DJ Project Rain: the only thing that can suck (that I have to deal with anyways) is the whole "nice guy" thing. Always ending up a "friend" instead of anything more ya know?
Flippntrance: yah, that i -do- understand
Flippntrance: cause we're too nice for our own good?
DJ Project Rain: I suppose so...

*shrugs*

I wonder if any of that is true.

Feh on being socially inept when it comes to anyone female.