Back from New York, what a fun time! I adore my friend Jacqui and am so happy that she is coming back home in three weeks. She is one of those people that just make the world a brighter and more beautiful place.
I will get some pics of her up when she gets back.
Heres the weekend:
Friday: Drove to the bronx after several...
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Friday: Drove to the bronx after several...
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Howdy yall. I want to update before the weekend, because I am going to New york this weekend to visit my good friend in the bronx who is graduating fordham university.
I am so proud of her.
Thanks for all the input on the topic of religion. I got some good responses. I like having these intellectual conversations because I have a hard time finding...
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chrisdryad:
Hi ya honey, what's it really like in NY? all we see in the UK is what's on TV, which is usually bullshit. I bet it's quite exillerating. Have a lovely time and take some pics
Sorry I didn't chat about the re-incarnation thing, it's not something I'm sure about. I mwan, I have thoughts on it but would find it difficult to articulate them. I do like intellectual chats though. How are you on evolution and stuff like that?
You think this bloke is on the rebound then, and not just into you soo much he broke up with his previous girl coz he couldn't stop thinking of you?
Take it easy babe, safe journey.

Sorry I didn't chat about the re-incarnation thing, it's not something I'm sure about. I mwan, I have thoughts on it but would find it difficult to articulate them. I do like intellectual chats though. How are you on evolution and stuff like that?
You think this bloke is on the rebound then, and not just into you soo much he broke up with his previous girl coz he couldn't stop thinking of you?

Take it easy babe, safe journey.


bonsugar:
Hey, so uh . . . tell me about the whole going to NY for the weekend thing. I'm spending the summer in Boston, and I definitely want to get up there at some point. Is it a hellish journey? I heard it's 3 hours by train. . . Hope you have fun anyway. Be naughty!

Whoa, what a weekend. God damn my alcohollism. Fucks me right up.
I hung out with a good friend, and we watched movies, napped, went to the bar, banged somne guy. It was a good time. Now I have to go to work though, which totally sucks. Thanks for taking the quiz though, and for those of you that were interested, I think I mostly...
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I hung out with a good friend, and we watched movies, napped, went to the bar, banged somne guy. It was a good time. Now I have to go to work though, which totally sucks. Thanks for taking the quiz though, and for those of you that were interested, I think I mostly...
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hastwothumbs:
Reincarnation, My Personal Belief Regarding
It's common scientifical-type knowledge that the universe is made of energy. What we perceive is illusion, or rather what we perceive is only what our limited scope of consciousness can process. Yet we, too, deep down, are energy.
Energy, as far as I know, can not be destroyed. So what happens to the energy that is the "me" and "you" after we die? I believe it is simply redistributed throughout the universe in a strange perversion of reincarnation.
I find it necessary at this point to state that I do believe in a higher power, be it a divine All Creator or several million Super People who look upon us in the same way we view the amoeba: they are superior to us simply because it is their nature to be so. Call me a polytheist if you like.
Despite all evidence to the contrary, I do believe that people who do not partake of evil will be rewarded in the afterlife. There are universal laws that sentient beings must adhere to.
There's no reasonable foundation for my belief, it's simply the drowning optimist within me. These people, or "good" people, draw in positive energy from the universe. Thus, their "souls" are larger than those who are "evil."
So with that in mind, let me use this example to explain how I think our energy is distributed. Imagine an ocean. In the middle of this ocean is a large mountain. This mountain has many, many spires of various shapes and sizes, all with varying pools at the top. Let's get all symbolic and call your body a cloud. Your cloud hovers above this mountain. When you die, you rain your soul over the mountain. Depending on how good you were in life, you will rain more. You fill most of the pools and spill out into other pools. These pools gather your water and distribute them to other clouds, via evaporation. However, the greatest of rains spill out into the ocean, where they join with the Higher Power in a way not unlike acheiving Buddhahood.
This process will change you, however. Since you've lost most of your Self, you won't be the same being.
And that is my completly unfounded and possibly ridiculous belief system.
It's common scientifical-type knowledge that the universe is made of energy. What we perceive is illusion, or rather what we perceive is only what our limited scope of consciousness can process. Yet we, too, deep down, are energy.
Energy, as far as I know, can not be destroyed. So what happens to the energy that is the "me" and "you" after we die? I believe it is simply redistributed throughout the universe in a strange perversion of reincarnation.
I find it necessary at this point to state that I do believe in a higher power, be it a divine All Creator or several million Super People who look upon us in the same way we view the amoeba: they are superior to us simply because it is their nature to be so. Call me a polytheist if you like.
Despite all evidence to the contrary, I do believe that people who do not partake of evil will be rewarded in the afterlife. There are universal laws that sentient beings must adhere to.
There's no reasonable foundation for my belief, it's simply the drowning optimist within me. These people, or "good" people, draw in positive energy from the universe. Thus, their "souls" are larger than those who are "evil."
So with that in mind, let me use this example to explain how I think our energy is distributed. Imagine an ocean. In the middle of this ocean is a large mountain. This mountain has many, many spires of various shapes and sizes, all with varying pools at the top. Let's get all symbolic and call your body a cloud. Your cloud hovers above this mountain. When you die, you rain your soul over the mountain. Depending on how good you were in life, you will rain more. You fill most of the pools and spill out into other pools. These pools gather your water and distribute them to other clouds, via evaporation. However, the greatest of rains spill out into the ocean, where they join with the Higher Power in a way not unlike acheiving Buddhahood.
This process will change you, however. Since you've lost most of your Self, you won't be the same being.
And that is my completly unfounded and possibly ridiculous belief system.
bonsugar:
'I agree with you that we are all essentially energy. But where did this energy come from? It can neither be created or destroyed, so it must have come from somewhere, and since the earth is only 4.6 billion years old by geological calculations, it must have come from somewhere else.' (from your comment on astrosaurus ' blog)
Sorry, I'm fascinated now . . . gotta dig a little deeper, and see if I'm following you: so is this a hypothesis on the origin of the earth? Or are you postulating about where each person's inherent energy comes from?
Sorry, I'm fascinated now . . . gotta dig a little deeper, and see if I'm following you: so is this a hypothesis on the origin of the earth? Or are you postulating about where each person's inherent energy comes from?
Hooray! My dad who is a wonderful man apart from working for an evil oil corporation has decided that he really wants to take me on a vacation this year!!!!!!!! I said that I want to go somewhere spanish-speaking since I am pretty good at spanish. (Last year we went to Europe and the closest I got was trying to speak spanish very drunkenly to...
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bonsugar:
I just want you to know that you're my first female friend on sg. I'm kind of excited. So feel special.

x_doug_x:
yeah, it was like 80 here one day last week, now snow. its not all that uncommon in my neck of the woods, but i'm still not happy about it, lol.
the good thing is that its not sticking to the pavement. but there seems to be about 3 inches on the lawn.
yeah, i am drooling over every part of Candylac, but especially her hair... i do love redheads
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yeah, i am drooling over every part of Candylac, but especially her hair... i do love redheads



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Ok, New update. Sorry I am such a slacker..Hehe. I had a good weekend, losing the battle of the binge. I can't seem to help myself whenever I am in the general vicinity of any of my vices. (see vice list)
I like to think I am strong, but I have no control over my intake.
But at least I have accepted this. I got...
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I like to think I am strong, but I have no control over my intake.

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xhippykid:
so........what festivles or shows you wanna go to? Bonnaroo, Zooma, Dead, Panic..ect?????????

chrisdryad:
What time is it where you are coz we often seem to be here around the same time? It's 17.30 her in the Uk. Got any plans yourself honey?
Having a strong urge to go out and get wasted..
Why does alcohol have to be soo bad for you? Why can't I just take my liver out and rinse it like the filter to my fish-tank?
I think I am too weak to hold out much longer. The gravitational pull of the liquor store (in which I recently obtained employment) and the combination of...
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Why does alcohol have to be soo bad for you? Why can't I just take my liver out and rinse it like the filter to my fish-tank?

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chrisdryad:
Hello there poetic girl, how you keepin?
I think I need to remove my liver, kidneys and lungs for cleaning
I think Startrk type technology is the way
Picture the scene; get in the teleporter before a session. get it to save your physical make up, get completely hammered on everything ( see replicator for huge quantities of booze/drugs
), wake up some hours/days later, pop into the teleporter and beam all the shite out of your system
Genius
More limericks please, funny rude stuff, Yay
I think I need to remove my liver, kidneys and lungs for cleaning




Genius
More limericks please, funny rude stuff, Yay

chrisdryad:
I'll sit with you and drink the rum I got from India
I just posted more pics from there. We did stay at a resort in Goa but you'll see from the pics, Mumbai is no resort

I just posted more pics from there. We did stay at a resort in Goa but you'll see from the pics, Mumbai is no resort
Woah, I am getting lazy with the updates. Sorry folks. I have been pretty good with not drinking. Did cheat a little this weekend but not too badly.
My friend called me up at 2:30 Am saturday and told me she was having a huge party. About 3 guinesses and 5 glasses of wine later we were making prank phone calls to my old roomate...
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bashster:
LIKE YOUR NEW PROFILE SHOT!.Its Ab fab!.This shots cause i,ve been teasing you that cannot drink heheheh
.Cheeky comment about my crush but i think your jealous
.As you know im keen on you too so heres a big kiss to stop you feeling like errrrm youre second place!
bash!.
ps i you holding a invisible tray of drinks and your bra straps showing!






ps i you holding a invisible tray of drinks and your bra straps showing!
mct:
Love the new profile pic ... hope all is well.
Sorry I have been lazy about the updates! I have been so busy and all...I also decided to quit drinking, since my liver feels swollen and sore..
Hopefully I am being a hypochondriac and it's just period cramps or something. But I decided that enough is enough, and I need to move on with my life.
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waldo_jeffers:
Cleansing the liver.
1. Cut down on harmful things like alcohol, tobacco etc and for the period of your detox, avoid these things altogether.
2. Drink plenty of water (tap water is just a good as bottled mineral water).
3. Eat healthily, including plenty of sources of antioxidants (ie fresh fruit and veg).
4. Certain herbs are reputed to cleanse the liver, such as Milk Thistle and Dandelion (warning; dandelion can have laxative effects).
5. Get a few early nights as well.
Good luck with quitting alcohol. I have been abstaining from alcohol since early in last July so it can be achieved, although people do look at me somewhat askance when I go to a bar and ask for a glass of soda water with ice and lemon!!
Good luck with going back to being a vegetarian. I became a vegetarian in my teens. I chose to do it in two stages (in order to reduce the risk that I might give up on it). I gave up the meat of land and air creatures when I was 16 and then at the age of 18, I gave up sea creatures too. I became a vegan much more recently, around about June last year.
I personally have no issue with people who give up meat but don't give up fish but then again I am very tolerant even of full blown meat eaters. As far as I am concerned, its up to everyone to make their own choices. If someone wants to be a meat eater that's up to them. If someone wants to be a vegetarian, that's up to them as well. Ok sure it would be great if everyone became vegan or vegetarian but hey, its not for me to start having a go at people because of their dietary choices. If you do find that people give you too much stick for being a fish eating vegetarian then you might find it easier to call yourself a pescatarian or pesco-vegetarian.
PS I loooove ginger!!!
1. Cut down on harmful things like alcohol, tobacco etc and for the period of your detox, avoid these things altogether.
2. Drink plenty of water (tap water is just a good as bottled mineral water).
3. Eat healthily, including plenty of sources of antioxidants (ie fresh fruit and veg).
4. Certain herbs are reputed to cleanse the liver, such as Milk Thistle and Dandelion (warning; dandelion can have laxative effects).
5. Get a few early nights as well.
Good luck with quitting alcohol. I have been abstaining from alcohol since early in last July so it can be achieved, although people do look at me somewhat askance when I go to a bar and ask for a glass of soda water with ice and lemon!!
Good luck with going back to being a vegetarian. I became a vegetarian in my teens. I chose to do it in two stages (in order to reduce the risk that I might give up on it). I gave up the meat of land and air creatures when I was 16 and then at the age of 18, I gave up sea creatures too. I became a vegan much more recently, around about June last year.
I personally have no issue with people who give up meat but don't give up fish but then again I am very tolerant even of full blown meat eaters. As far as I am concerned, its up to everyone to make their own choices. If someone wants to be a meat eater that's up to them. If someone wants to be a vegetarian, that's up to them as well. Ok sure it would be great if everyone became vegan or vegetarian but hey, its not for me to start having a go at people because of their dietary choices. If you do find that people give you too much stick for being a fish eating vegetarian then you might find it easier to call yourself a pescatarian or pesco-vegetarian.
PS I loooove ginger!!!
chrisdryad:
I did have very dodgy guts for about a week after getting home
All ok now, well, up to this weekend
I think I drunk your share of booze and some quantity of various other things too
I'm vegan but I would never judge someone elses choice of diet. People just ignore you if you do and you end up losing friends. The way I see it is we make our own choices for our own reasons. What others do is up to them and who am I to say someones choice is right or wrong?
Hope your liver feels better soon honey.
Are we gonna see a pic of your girl then?



I'm vegan but I would never judge someone elses choice of diet. People just ignore you if you do and you end up losing friends. The way I see it is we make our own choices for our own reasons. What others do is up to them and who am I to say someones choice is right or wrong?
Hope your liver feels better soon honey.
Are we gonna see a pic of your girl then?



I am really considering lesbianism. I am sooo sick of the opposite sex. I have just been disappointed by every guy I have ever been interested in.
And to top it off I have a really hard time talking to girls. I am actually kind of a loner, and have very few close girl friends.
So how about that pope, anyways?
I feel like he...
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And to top it off I have a really hard time talking to girls. I am actually kind of a loner, and have very few close girl friends.
So how about that pope, anyways?

I feel like he...
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japap1177:
If you wish?
chrisdryad:
There was some bleakness, like leppers begging at your car window when you stop at traffic lights. There was a whole load of outstandingly beautiful stuff too. We went to some temples, one in the middle of the city, Mahalaxmi temple, it was so tranquill
I've just put some pics up if you want to see

I've just put some pics up if you want to see


Ok, I finally decided on a message for now...
"Hi, you have reached the depths of hell (stop) Satan and his demon spawn are currently unavailable (stop) If you leave a message I am sure they will get back to you (stop) have a nice day, and don't prey your rosary!"
My friend already left me a message saying that I was one of the...
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"Hi, you have reached the depths of hell (stop) Satan and his demon spawn are currently unavailable (stop) If you leave a message I am sure they will get back to you (stop) have a nice day, and don't prey your rosary!"
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japap1177:
Im not naked Im just drawn that way haha
pigletx69:
Yeah, I'm used to my family acting like that though. Last weekend, my mom made me come look at the dress my grandma was goign to wear to my brothers wedding....and it wasnt til later that i realized it was the dress that my mom was supposed to wear to MY wedding. And this was like a week after the guy and I broke up. They're so rude.
Yeah your boss does sound kind of creepy. You should kick him in the balls
Yeah your boss does sound kind of creepy. You should kick him in the balls

I am a total dreadfiend too, but I'll tell you striaght, there are some disadvantages. If you live in a place with a narrow minded, mentallity, you'll get stared at loads, possibly hassle of racist idiots/police etc. Other people may just call you a hippy but they're easy to ignore. They can cause your scalp to itch which is really annoying
On the positve side
What more can I say? The chioce is yours. There is the dreadlock group for more info.
If you go for it, you know I'm gonna want to see a dread/corset pic