sometimes, when the flirting has been laid on particularly thick, i wonder if friendship is possible between males and females. if there can be a mutual understanding and trust between two individuals without the incessant flare of feathers and showing of ones attributes. i wonder if its possible to be accepted exactly as is without requirement for modification. i wonder if its possible to truely they another human without it being tinged with the concepts of a conquest or as a sexual experience. what do you think?
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I grew up with woman and have many friends that are girls; I even call them sisters.
Yet I have been out, sometimes within the influence other time not, and thought wow I would love to be having sex with them right now.
Know full well it is wrong and unhealthy for our relationship.
So I think we all have these feelings going on inside simultaneously. We all need love and friendship, all the while being bombarded with lust and self-evaluation.
Somewhere in the middle real life happens. The friends I have had sex with it has strengthened our bond and got our lust out of the way so we could go on a be friends, even better friends. But these choices are rare and always "check-ed out" to ensure the feeling were mutual.
In conclusion, sure we are attracted to our friends in some way or they would not be our friends. As long as we respect the bond and are sensitive (note: aware of each other) we can enjoy and celebrate all the differing emotional state we share.
and that is what I think, feel and have experienced about it
Cheers.