Things I Have Learned About Myself And Others In This Week:
1. Most people have a tough time discerning between flirtation and seduction. Flirtation is an enjoyment of mutual chemistry between two people. Flirtation is enjoyed purely for its own sake. Seduction is flirtation with a goal - to get somewhere, primarily in someone's pants.
I flirt. Quite a lot, in all actuality. Perhaps a little more than with what most people feel is comfortable. But I am not a seducer - unless I have made it plain in spoken or written language that I am going to try to occupy the same space in your pants.
2. I flirt a lot less in my day-to-day activities when I am danicng more often. I generally get to dance three times a week (really only dance intensely once a week). The more I have opportunities for dancing and I take those opportunities, the less I'm inclined to put out a flirtacious vibe in my everyday doings. And I kind of like it like that. It helps the celebacy thing work a lot more. It even tones down the desire to masturbate.
3. Ultimate Ice Cream is the shit. I can see this summer being full of trips to that place. Thrice weekly. Damn. Black Mocha Stout? Wild Turkey? Guiness? All in ice cream? Did you just say 'I'm going to rock your world with ice cream', because that's what you just did!
4. I need to be more forward with those that annoy me. By not saying anything, I kind of sanction their actions with silence even though they grate on my nerves.
1. Most people have a tough time discerning between flirtation and seduction. Flirtation is an enjoyment of mutual chemistry between two people. Flirtation is enjoyed purely for its own sake. Seduction is flirtation with a goal - to get somewhere, primarily in someone's pants.
I flirt. Quite a lot, in all actuality. Perhaps a little more than with what most people feel is comfortable. But I am not a seducer - unless I have made it plain in spoken or written language that I am going to try to occupy the same space in your pants.
2. I flirt a lot less in my day-to-day activities when I am danicng more often. I generally get to dance three times a week (really only dance intensely once a week). The more I have opportunities for dancing and I take those opportunities, the less I'm inclined to put out a flirtacious vibe in my everyday doings. And I kind of like it like that. It helps the celebacy thing work a lot more. It even tones down the desire to masturbate.
3. Ultimate Ice Cream is the shit. I can see this summer being full of trips to that place. Thrice weekly. Damn. Black Mocha Stout? Wild Turkey? Guiness? All in ice cream? Did you just say 'I'm going to rock your world with ice cream', because that's what you just did!
4. I need to be more forward with those that annoy me. By not saying anything, I kind of sanction their actions with silence even though they grate on my nerves.
(and double yay for #4. Possibly applying the idea of clarifying interactions to the flirtations would make things more manageable as well... There are many many females who are hardly ever flirted with and are thus overwhelmed when someone does flirt with them and get the crazy idea that there's more or the possiblity for more than there actually is.)
(and I'm done gulittripping you... seriously though... We had a delightful time.