Okay. I realized today that my best friend is the best friend in the world for anyone to have. J and C you are both unworthy of any attention she has ever given you. People that love you don't ask you to lie or keep secrets from your friends. (Keeping secrets leads to lying, and someone that will ask you to lie for them or keep secrets, has no problem lying themselves.) ( Kinda makes you wonder how many others out there are lying and keeping secrets for him.) She may get mad at me for this and berate me later, of course it upsets me that I had to read her journal to find out all this was going on. Seems she was trying to be friends with a jerk and (words can't express). For what it is worth I hope the years you (c) have with him (j) before he finds another toy are enjoyable and prove to be a good learning experience. After all we all learn from our mistakes right. I'd say a lot more but I respect my friends need to keep what she has learned to herself. I have to say not putting it all out there for her is killing me because by nature I am a total BITCH! 
I have to quit ranting before I say something that gives my friend a valid reason to scream at me!
I have to quit ranting before I say something that gives my friend a valid reason to scream at me!